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Wow wee oh my - trying to hack away at my £54k debt (was even about to book a holiday)
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alt80 said:@enthusiasticsaver Not sure how much experience in property you have tbh but i/o on a BTL isn’t the gamble it is on a res home. If the investment stacks there’s much less of an issue and remoing to leverage the next property is a legitimate way to maximise growth of a portfolio (increases reward and risk though as with any form of leverage tbf). However, as I’ve said the OP doesn’t seem to have any real strategy (or exit) for the investment and it should not be on a res mortgage. Exit is something he can certainly consider and as you rightly point out no guarantees.
You also point out that the mortgage should not be on a residential mortgage as it is a BTL which is correct. I chose to overlook that as his thread is about his debt.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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caeler said:@Rainbowtrousers I log all my receipts to make sure I stay within my monthly allowed spending money which covers food, fuel and any incidentals or things I want. I’m very strict with myself. I meal plan so I avoid overbuying and wastage. I always take a packed lunch to work. I only do one weekly shop and recently I’ve realised I don’t need to do a full weekly shop, now every other week is just for a few fresh bits like milk and veg. I hate wasting money. I do this as I’m very focused on paying off the mortgage so every spare penny is accounted for.
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Rainbowtrousers said:caeler said:@Rainbowtrousers I log all my receipts to make sure I stay within my monthly allowed spending money which covers food, fuel and any incidentals or things I want. I’m very strict with myself. I meal plan so I avoid overbuying and wastage. I always take a packed lunch to work. I only do one weekly shop and recently I’ve realised I don’t need to do a full weekly shop, now every other week is just for a few fresh bits like milk and veg. I hate wasting money. I do this as I’m very focused on paying off the mortgage so every spare penny is accounted for.1
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Rainbowtrousers said:caeler said:@Rainbowtrousers I log all my receipts to make sure I stay within my monthly allowed spending money which covers food, fuel and any incidentals or things I want. I’m very strict with myself. I meal plan so I avoid overbuying and wastage. I always take a packed lunch to work. I only do one weekly shop and recently I’ve realised I don’t need to do a full weekly shop, now every other week is just for a few fresh bits like milk and veg. I hate wasting money. I do this as I’m very focused on paying off the mortgage so every spare penny is accounted for.2
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MidsHollie said:Well done on deciding against the remortgage.Im with astrocytic_kitten on recommending the zero based budget. I’ve found that zero based budgeting, a spending diary (logging every single freaking spend, as close to the time as spending it, but about once per week) and sinking funds have worked really well for me.It’s funny isn’t it, how people are different. I would 100% not have the headspace for another job after my full time job, but I would happily have a housemate. I think if I was going to get the extra job I’d get the housemate too.... you’ll never be at home to see them anyway!! I’m an introvert too, I just always find an introverted housemate. The thing that puts me off about a second job is the tax on it. Wouldn’t you g rest taxed at 40%? I find it annoying that the govt would take almost half of my very very hard earned extra cash.1
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Rainbowtrousers said:Yes well i am not using it as an excuse but i also grew up in a poor family living month to month with the odd takeaway as a treat. Was the first one to go to university and the only one from my friend group. Ironically my friends that left school at 15 and became plumbers are now rolling in it ha ha. Sorry to hear about your health and i am really chuffed that you decided to share that here with me/us. Noted with the cleaner and yoga, sounds like they do for you as my gym/pool does for me. i also struggle with anxiety at times and those activities are my reset.
I bet the feeling must be awesome. I took my first loan at 18 and have been in debt since. So debt free and savings would be totally totally alien to me. You must actually save so much more money now. The feeling i get is that it is an upward spiral (being able to pay for annual policies which are cheaper etc). If i can do 2021 within budget that would be a huge huge step.
Thanks for the helpful tips. I too have had to share my debts with friends. One friend who i was on the recent holiday with (he is excellent with money) could not believe it when i said it was part funded by mortgage holidays! Crazy ... He said i seemed so happy and content and could not believe that i had taken more debt to finance it. Oh my ....
Thanks again for the helpful tips.You can definitely get there too. Good luck with the weekly shop!Debt at LBM (Dec 2018): £23,167
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alt80 said:@Rainbowtrousers Please don’t take this as judgement but I am seriously concerned you’ve got a BTL on a res mortgage. If this is what I think it is you are (perhaps unwittingly) committing mortgage fraud. Re. what to do with the BTL - you don’t seem to have any real strategy. I/O is quite likely the way to go but equally depending on where the BTL is and your own strategy for investment repayment may not necessarily be the worst idea. As I’m fairly sure someone is going to judge the fact I’m even giving advice in the first place relating to money ... I may be a d**k with my personal finances but I am experienced as a LL and my other business is property so feel free to ask any questions if you’re serious about property investing - what you’re doing now is no way to build a portfolio and there are a lot of pitfalls.
As for me did I realise it? Yes 100%- I did it to avoid telling my wife I had a smidge under £100k in credit card debt. Not my finest moment.
I earn similar to you did in Switzerland but was spending £10.5-11k/m living on the income I’d like not the one I have. Earning half your previous income must be very difficult and probably explains a lot of the debt.
Res mortgage remo - I just have too many financial commitments right now (£1650/m car finance, £1k/m cards, £1k/m school etc.). Currently under 50% LTV on my res home and will only increase to leverage further property investments. Not even saying that’s something most people should do tbh.
Think we have quite a few similarities tbf. There are a few of us on here who earn well and have issues with mindset / lifestyle / too image conscious.
You have hit the nail on the head with mindset.
Thanks again.
I still want the 911 4S and that will not change but i need to find a way to earn and save for it!2 -
enthusiasticsaver said:alt80 said:@enthusiasticsaver Not sure how much experience in property you have tbh but i/o on a BTL isn’t the gamble it is on a res home. If the investment stacks there’s much less of an issue and remoing to leverage the next property is a legitimate way to maximise growth of a portfolio (increases reward and risk though as with any form of leverage tbf). However, as I’ve said the OP doesn’t seem to have any real strategy (or exit) for the investment and it should not be on a res mortgage. Exit is something he can certainly consider and as you rightly point out no guarantees.
You also point out that the mortgage should not be on a residential mortgage as it is a BTL which is correct. I chose to overlook that as his thread is about his debt.2 -
I do like that description, upward spiral! That is exactly how it feels.Debt-free August 21, Mortgage-neutral April 241
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One-step-at-a-time said:I do like that description, upward spiral! That is exactly how it feels.0
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