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House sales keep falling through - Am I the problem?
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pbhb
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Hello! I have been house hunting since June, in July I found a property that ticked all my boxes (period cottage, near family, garden). I fell head over heels in love with this home, I offered £390k cash, it was on the market at £399k. This was accepted and the conveyancing process started. Unfortunately, 5 weeks into the process the surveyor told us the thatch needed total replacement which would have cost around £25k. I was not happy but loved the house and was willing to carry on buying it and would replace it at my own cost. However, 10 weeks in we received the searches and despite the sellers ticking 'no' on the law society form when asked if they knew of any local planning applications, it turned out there was permission for 203 houses to be built on the field opposite, along with a nursery, care home and a warehouse, the road layout infront of the cottage was also changing and traffic lights are going to be put in.
I pulled out, one because the agent and the sellers tried to lie about this, and two, because i am not buying a cottage to have a huge housing estate and warehouses on my doorstep with lorries constantly driving past.
A few weeks later I found house number two, another thatch cottage but atleast this one was in a beautiful village with no planning applications/permissions other than people wanting to cut down trees or hedges. All was going well and a week before exchange we received a devastating survey report... although I am a cash buyer I asked for a valuation as I wanted to know for a future resale and the surveyor valued it at £0, it was unmortgageable due to huge structural issues. The front render needed total replacement, the 17th century beams were rotten and infested with woodworm, polystyrene in the floors creating huge fire risk, both bathrooms ill-fitted and leaking into the downstairs causing more damp, and so much more. This coupled with the fact the garden needed a total overhaul I just felt as though it would be too much work. I went to the agent and asked for a meeting with him and the sellers to see if we could discuss a way forward as i loved the cottage, but I was totally ghosted! They didn't want anything to do with me anymore so I pulled out.
I am now searching for house 3 and feeling totally disheartened. I am 29 and single and just want a nice house for myself and my dog, yet I seem to choose ones with major issues! I am aware I am looking for an older property which comes with problems but each time I view them, I am told nothing will come up on the survey and they need no work. I can't sleep at night through fear of each property falling through. I have had a really rough divorce where my husband cheated on me and then kicked me out the house with the dog, I lost my home over night and just want a new one.
Am I being problematic by pulling out of these sales? Do I need to just suck it up and realise I will need to do work on these places? I didn't mind a project but need to know this upfront. Each time I tell the agent to just be honest with me so I can assess the situation before starting the conveyancing process and getting my heart broken again.
I have found a third house and it seems too good to be true, in one of the nicest villages in the county, it is 19th century so old but not as old as what i was previously looking at, and it looks like its undergone total renovation a few years ago. But I am terrified of starting the buying process again... I seem to be spending all my money on wasted surveys (although a damn good investment) and solicitor fees.
Is this normal? I can't sleep at night. The buying process started out so fun and now is wrecking havoc on my mental health whilst I try and deal with divorce. Why can't agents just be honest with me and tell me what needs doing and why previous sales fell through?
I pulled out, one because the agent and the sellers tried to lie about this, and two, because i am not buying a cottage to have a huge housing estate and warehouses on my doorstep with lorries constantly driving past.
A few weeks later I found house number two, another thatch cottage but atleast this one was in a beautiful village with no planning applications/permissions other than people wanting to cut down trees or hedges. All was going well and a week before exchange we received a devastating survey report... although I am a cash buyer I asked for a valuation as I wanted to know for a future resale and the surveyor valued it at £0, it was unmortgageable due to huge structural issues. The front render needed total replacement, the 17th century beams were rotten and infested with woodworm, polystyrene in the floors creating huge fire risk, both bathrooms ill-fitted and leaking into the downstairs causing more damp, and so much more. This coupled with the fact the garden needed a total overhaul I just felt as though it would be too much work. I went to the agent and asked for a meeting with him and the sellers to see if we could discuss a way forward as i loved the cottage, but I was totally ghosted! They didn't want anything to do with me anymore so I pulled out.
I am now searching for house 3 and feeling totally disheartened. I am 29 and single and just want a nice house for myself and my dog, yet I seem to choose ones with major issues! I am aware I am looking for an older property which comes with problems but each time I view them, I am told nothing will come up on the survey and they need no work. I can't sleep at night through fear of each property falling through. I have had a really rough divorce where my husband cheated on me and then kicked me out the house with the dog, I lost my home over night and just want a new one.
Am I being problematic by pulling out of these sales? Do I need to just suck it up and realise I will need to do work on these places? I didn't mind a project but need to know this upfront. Each time I tell the agent to just be honest with me so I can assess the situation before starting the conveyancing process and getting my heart broken again.
I have found a third house and it seems too good to be true, in one of the nicest villages in the county, it is 19th century so old but not as old as what i was previously looking at, and it looks like its undergone total renovation a few years ago. But I am terrified of starting the buying process again... I seem to be spending all my money on wasted surveys (although a damn good investment) and solicitor fees.
Is this normal? I can't sleep at night. The buying process started out so fun and now is wrecking havoc on my mental health whilst I try and deal with divorce. Why can't agents just be honest with me and tell me what needs doing and why previous sales fell through?
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You haven't wasted money on surveys - thats what they are there for, so you have all the information to make an informed choice when to spend your money. If you needed a mortgage then your lender would of reduced the first amount by £25K and wouldn't of lent on the second property.
Keep looking you will find somewhere. I wouldnt buy an old property with rotten wood beams, but then again I wouldnt sell a property on the open market with rotten wooden beams.8 -
if you're only looking at older properties, surely you'll need to accept they will all have some issues and they will cost a bit to fix.
It sounds to me like you need to research the properties a bit more. Planning permission issues you can find out about yourself by looking at council's portal.
At the end of the day, I'd choose a area, find a house that ticks the boxes, be prepared to pay a bit to do it up. If a survey uncovers anything horrendous reduce the offer to match that and see what happens. There is no point in running away at the first sign of trouble. It will get expensive very quickly!
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Older houses are always more likely to have issues. You just have to keep persevering.
With regards to the first property, just remember that any house you buy could always have planning permission granted in the future. This would actually be worse as could devalue your property, at least if you know about things being built you can offer accordingly.4 -
eidand said:if you're only looking at older properties, surely you'll need to accept they will all have some issues and they will cost a bit to fix.
It sounds to me like you need to research the properties a bit more. Planning permission issues you can find out about yourself by looking at council's portal.
At the end of the day, I'd choose a area, find a house that ticks the boxes, be prepared to pay a bit to do it up. If a survey uncovers anything horrendous reduce the offer to match that and see what happens. There is no point in running away at the first sign of trouble. It will get expensive very quickly!0 -
If you wish to live in a chocolate box thatched cottage then expect there to be issues. Surveys are part and parcel of the territory.2
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pbhb said:eidand said:if you're only looking at older properties, surely you'll need to accept they will all have some issues and they will cost a bit to fix.
It sounds to me like you need to research the properties a bit more. Planning permission issues you can find out about yourself by looking at council's portal.
At the end of the day, I'd choose a area, find a house that ticks the boxes, be prepared to pay a bit to do it up. If a survey uncovers anything horrendous reduce the offer to match that and see what happens. There is no point in running away at the first sign of trouble. It will get expensive very quickly!1 -
eidand said:pbhb said:eidand said:if you're only looking at older properties, surely you'll need to accept they will all have some issues and they will cost a bit to fix.
It sounds to me like you need to research the properties a bit more. Planning permission issues you can find out about yourself by looking at council's portal.
At the end of the day, I'd choose a area, find a house that ticks the boxes, be prepared to pay a bit to do it up. If a survey uncovers anything horrendous reduce the offer to match that and see what happens. There is no point in running away at the first sign of trouble. It will get expensive very quickly!1 -
Thrugelmir said:If you wish to live in a chocolate box thatched cottage then expect there to be issues. Surveys are part and parcel of the territory.
The first two cottages were 17th century, I am now looking at 19th century and my surveyor told me this is much better, so fingers crossed!
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FinallyStoppedLurking said:Older houses are always more likely to have issues. You just have to keep persevering.
With regards to the first property, just remember that any house you buy could always have planning permission granted in the future. This would actually be worse as could devalue your property, at least if you know about things being built you can offer accordingly.0 -
Yes, what you're going through is normal. Don't get discouraged.
The reason agents won't be as transparent as you want is that they don't work for you, they work for the seller. They are not your friend or on your side, however much they may try and make it seem that way.0
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