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Should I speak to HR about my salary concerns?

goldlemontree
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I was told I was getting a salary increase back in Dec last year, I didn't ask for this I was just told in a face to face meeting that our team had worked so well that we were getting a pay rise. After this, nothing happened however I know that all my team members got this increase. I enquired about it and was told that the department head was still working on a plan to set some goals for me to receive this increase incrementally and on a quarterly basis.
Then the lockdown period happened and we were all told to work from home, it felt inappropriate to chase this up while people were being furloughed and the company was losing clients. However, it's been months now and last week we found out we were hiring another senior member of the team so clearly we have the budget there to be hiring someone entirely new but I haven't been given a very small pay increase. The entire company also had a salary review around January time and most people got raises or a little bonus but not I. I should mention also that when I was told that I would be getting an increase, I was just finishing 'the last quarter, of another pay rise I had asked for the year before.
My point is, I didn't ask for this increase but was told I was getting one and then nothing, no comms about whether I was getting it or not and why and then suddenly we're hiring someone new. I'm baffled, upset, feeling undervalued, discriminated against (I'm the only female member of the team), to be honest I don't know what to think as I don't know the reason why it hasn't gone ahead and why no one has said anything to me. My question is should I bring this up directly with my line manager (I don't have a great relationship with him) or speak to HR first and see if they can do some looking into it?
Then the lockdown period happened and we were all told to work from home, it felt inappropriate to chase this up while people were being furloughed and the company was losing clients. However, it's been months now and last week we found out we were hiring another senior member of the team so clearly we have the budget there to be hiring someone entirely new but I haven't been given a very small pay increase. The entire company also had a salary review around January time and most people got raises or a little bonus but not I. I should mention also that when I was told that I would be getting an increase, I was just finishing 'the last quarter, of another pay rise I had asked for the year before.
My point is, I didn't ask for this increase but was told I was getting one and then nothing, no comms about whether I was getting it or not and why and then suddenly we're hiring someone new. I'm baffled, upset, feeling undervalued, discriminated against (I'm the only female member of the team), to be honest I don't know what to think as I don't know the reason why it hasn't gone ahead and why no one has said anything to me. My question is should I bring this up directly with my line manager (I don't have a great relationship with him) or speak to HR first and see if they can do some looking into it?
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See you almost go to the end of your post without mentioning the 'd' word.
HR aren't there for this. In fact HR are there to basically get rid of you legally. Speak to your union. If you're not a member (why not) speak to your manager.
If the new salary has been noted in a review. I'd start with looking at that any conditions for that.0 -
It may be best to start with your Manager first and see what he says.0
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Who told you that you'd be getting an increase? Can you have a word with them? They really should have put that in writing, with a copy to you and your line manager. Verbal offers are meaningless.
Even if you don't get on with your line manager, you are going to have to talk to him and ask about this. Tell him what you have told us, how you feel about what has happened. That is what he's there for. Don't speak to HR before you speak to your manager, that'll just cause your relationship to deteriorate further.Please note - taken from the Forum Rules and amended for my own personal use (with thanks) : It is up to you to investigate, check, double-check and check yet again before you make any decisions or take any action based on any information you glean from any of my posts. Although I do carry out careful research before posting and never intend to mislead or supply out-of-date or incorrect information, please do not rely 100% on what you are reading. Verify everything in order to protect yourself as you are responsible for any action you consequently take.0 -
Comms69 said:See you almost go to the end of your post without mentioning the 'd' word.
HR aren't there for this. In fact HR are there to basically get rid of you legally. Speak to your union. If you're not a member (why not) speak to your manager.
If the new salary has been noted in a review. I'd start with looking at that any conditions for that.
But in this case, the OP really should speak to her manager first.Please note - taken from the Forum Rules and amended for my own personal use (with thanks) : It is up to you to investigate, check, double-check and check yet again before you make any decisions or take any action based on any information you glean from any of my posts. Although I do carry out careful research before posting and never intend to mislead or supply out-of-date or incorrect information, please do not rely 100% on what you are reading. Verify everything in order to protect yourself as you are responsible for any action you consequently take.0 -
MalMonroe said:Who told you that you'd be getting an increase? Can you have a word with them? They really should have put that in writing, with a copy to you and your line manager. Verbal offers are meaningless.
Even if you don't get on with your line manager, you are going to have to talk to him and ask about this. Tell him what you have told us, how you feel about what has happened. That is what he's there for. Don't speak to HR before you speak to your manager, that'll just cause your relationship to deteriorate further.Please note - taken from the Forum Rules and amended for my own personal use (with thanks) : It is up to you to investigate, check, double-check and check yet again before you make any decisions or take any action based on any information you glean from any of my posts. Although I do carry out careful research before posting and never intend to mislead or supply out-of-date or incorrect information, please do not rely 100% on what you are reading. Verify everything in order to protect yourself as you are responsible for any action you consequently take.0 -
MalMonroe said:Comms69 said:See you almost go to the end of your post without mentioning the 'd' word.
HR aren't there for this. In fact HR are there to basically get rid of you legally. Speak to your union. If you're not a member (why not) speak to your manager.
If the new salary has been noted in a review. I'd start with looking at that any conditions for that.
But in this case, the OP really should speak to her manager first.0 -
MalMonroe said:Comms69 said:See you almost go to the end of your post without mentioning the 'd' word.
HR aren't there for this. In fact HR are there to basically get rid of you legally. Speak to your union. If you're not a member (why not) speak to your manager.
If the new salary has been noted in a review. I'd start with looking at that any conditions for that.
But in this case, the OP really should speak to her manager first.Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!0 -
MalMonroe said:Comms69 said:See you almost go to the end of your post without mentioning the 'd' word.
HR aren't there for this. In fact HR are there to basically get rid of you legally. Speak to your union. If you're not a member (why not) speak to your manager.
If the new salary has been noted in a review. I'd start with looking at that any conditions for that.0 -
MalMonroe said:Comms69 said:See you almost go to the end of your post without mentioning the 'd' word.
HR aren't there for this. In fact HR are there to basically get rid of you legally. Speak to your union. If you're not a member (why not) speak to your manager.
If the new salary has been noted in a review. I'd start with looking at that any conditions for that.
But in this case, the OP really should speak to her manager first.Forty and fabulous, well that's what my cards say....0 -
Speak to your manager. If the rest of your team has got a pay rise and you haven't then it seems like someone in your management team doesn't believe you deserve a payrise. I assume its been blocked for some reason (probably performance related)
This is often a problem when payrises are informally promised before they have gone through the process. Really your manager shouldn't have said anything until the payrise was signed off and approved0
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