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dx052 said:Hi received a letter from the child maintenance saying that I ex amount in back payments to the mother of my daughter who I have seen in about five years and her mother about 20 years. Anyway the child maintenance letter has appeared from nowhere saying I have to pay this random amount each week as of now (not sure were they got these figures from) on a weekly basis via standing order I haven't spoken to them prior to this and was wondering what I can do if I am not happy about this process.
If a case was open when your daughter was younger and payments were not made then they can chase for arrears. If your ex was on income support then they automatically got the csa involved to get maintenance from the non resident parent.LBM Debt Total : £48,326.50
Pay All Your Debt Off By Xmas 2023 - #50 £1,495.29 / £12,000.00
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Comms69 said:Child support cannot be backdated- I’d be questioning if this is legit.
was there ever a CSA case?0 -
CocoM2020 said:Comms69 said:Child support cannot be backdated- I’d be questioning if this is legit.
was there ever a CSA case?
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/family/children-and-young-people/child-maintenance/child-maintenance-2012-scheme/child-maintenance-enforcement/child-maintenance-enforcement-where-to-start/
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AskAsk said:dx052 said:gizmo111 said:How old is your daughter?
https://www.moneyadviceservice.org.uk/en/articles/how-much-child-maintenance-should-i-pay#:~:text=You're normally expected to,Highers or
so don't understand why you have pay the maintenance now, unless it is payment to recover the debt.
as far as i am aware, you are responsible for child maintenance whether you see the child or not, which is stated in the article below
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/family/children-and-young-people/child-maintenance/child-maintenance-2012-scheme/child-maintenance-eligibility-and-rules/do-you-have-to-pay-child-maintenance-under-the-2012-child-maintenance-scheme/#:~:text=If you don't have,have regular contact with them.&text=If you can't negotiate,for a child arrangements order.
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burlingtonfl6 said:AskAsk said:dx052 said:gizmo111 said:How old is your daughter?
https://www.moneyadviceservice.org.uk/en/articles/how-much-child-maintenance-should-i-pay#:~:text=You're normally expected to,Highers or
so don't understand why you have pay the maintenance now, unless it is payment to recover the debt.
as far as i am aware, you are responsible for child maintenance whether you see the child or not, which is stated in the article below
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/family/children-and-young-people/child-maintenance/child-maintenance-2012-scheme/child-maintenance-eligibility-and-rules/do-you-have-to-pay-child-maintenance-under-the-2012-child-maintenance-scheme/#:~:text=If you don't have,have regular contact with them.&text=If you can't negotiate,for a child arrangements order.that article states 20 if still in full time education. i could swear it said 25 when i read the link previously and i did think that was pretty old to still be supporting your kid
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AskAsk said:CocoM2020 said:Comms69 said:Child support cannot be backdated- I’d be questioning if this is legit.
was there ever a CSA case?
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/family/children-and-young-people/child-maintenance/child-maintenance-2012-scheme/child-maintenance-enforcement/child-maintenance-enforcement-where-to-start/
There were many people on income support that had CSA cases opened that were still open until the changing to CMS. The cases that were opened due to income support are arrears owed to the DWP and not even the resident parent. I think these are very old cases , maybe even pre 2003LBM Debt Total : £48,326.50
Pay All Your Debt Off By Xmas 2023 - #50 £1,495.29 / £12,000.00
Saving For Christmas 2023 - £1 a day challenge - #6 £100/£1095.001 -
I'm aware that the CMS has been writing to parents who are owed money according to the CMS records to ask if the parent wants them to chase the other parent for it, and if they agree they are sending out these letters. Some of the arrears are very old, so the first question is "Is the amount of arrears correct and does the CMS have any evidence that backed up the claim the arrears figure is correct?"The comments I post are my personal opinion. While I try to check everything is correct before posting, I can and do make mistakes, so always try to check official information sources before relying on my posts.0
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burlingtonfl6 said:AskAsk said:dx052 said:gizmo111 said:How old is your daughter?
https://www.moneyadviceservice.org.uk/en/articles/how-much-child-maintenance-should-i-pay#:~:text=You're normally expected to,Highers or
so don't understand why you have pay the maintenance now, unless it is payment to recover the debt.
as far as i am aware, you are responsible for child maintenance whether you see the child or not, which is stated in the article below
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/family/children-and-young-people/child-maintenance/child-maintenance-2012-scheme/child-maintenance-eligibility-and-rules/do-you-have-to-pay-child-maintenance-under-the-2012-child-maintenance-scheme/#:~:text=If you don't have,have regular contact with them.&text=If you can't negotiate,for a child arrangements order.
Happy moneysaving all.0 -
sassyblue said:burlingtonfl6 said:AskAsk said:dx052 said:gizmo111 said:How old is your daughter?
https://www.moneyadviceservice.org.uk/en/articles/how-much-child-maintenance-should-i-pay#:~:text=You're normally expected to,Highers or
so don't understand why you have pay the maintenance now, unless it is payment to recover the debt.
as far as i am aware, you are responsible for child maintenance whether you see the child or not, which is stated in the article below
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/family/children-and-young-people/child-maintenance/child-maintenance-2012-scheme/child-maintenance-eligibility-and-rules/do-you-have-to-pay-child-maintenance-under-the-2012-child-maintenance-scheme/#:~:text=If you don't have,have regular contact with them.&text=If you can't negotiate,for a child arrangements order.
Further is A levels or equivalent such as Btec level 3.
Higher is degree or beyond.
Child benefit can still be paid if child is still in further education up to the age of 20, so I'm guessing maintainace follows the same.0
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