O/S Daily Wednesday 19 August 2020

topsyturphy

Morning everyone 
Been reading along but have been busy with work and home life.
ds2 is still struggling emotionally. My dh can’t see that although he is 20, he has got emotional difficulties due to his learning difficulties and is more like aged 16.I feel like I’m constantly on edge in the middle trying to keep the peace. Ds2 is still working thankfully. He needs to feel secure in where he is living and at the moment every time he argues back my dh says he can’t live here. I’m going to look at a house to rent today as I need to look after me too and I can’t carry on with the way things are. Unfortunately the house is in dh sole name which he bought before we got married.

redruby - hope the house sale goes through for dd without any messing from the toxic ex.
TA - thinking of you, hope today is a better day for you. 

Not a lot more to say. Hugs to anyone that needs/wants one. Take Care

monnagran

Topsyturphy, just a quickie.  Peace of mind and being comfortable in your own home is the most important thing in the world.  Everything else is irrelevant.  Thoughts and prayers are with you.  Do what is right for you. x

 ETA Don't know what the law is now, but when I was divorced the house was in my ex's name, however once you are married it becomes marital property.  Maybe worth looking into.

RedRuby1231

Topsy I am sorry to hear things have been rough for you, although I seem to think your DH has always had a problem with your son if I recall correctly ? you are right to put your ds and yourself first, you cant live somewhere you are constantly on edge,  I am here if you need a chat or a shoulder to cry on my lovely xx

TravellingAbuela

Aw Topsy my heart goes out to you. I hope your viewing goes well,  Living under permanent stress playing the peacemaker is no sort of life. Just do what is best for you xx

Rowan9

thinking of you Topsy. X

Molly41

I agree with Monna, please get legal advice once you are settled x
Love to you xx