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  • gizmo111
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    jazzyja said:
    How are you proving to your parents where this deposit money is going? I mean they're giving you 50-60% of your house but can't let you have 5k out of it? (drop in the ocean in terms of 60% of a house) bit backwards if you ask me. Theyre old fashioned but happy to let you continue to pay rent for even longer/pay whacking interest rates because of this default. Doesnt make sense. You say it was a bad time in your life, maybe explain that to your parents. 
    Well even if he pays the debt in full, it will still be a default for over £5k which would still attract higher interest rates from mortgage companies, even though it is satisfied, and will remain on his credit file for another 3 years, whatever he does.
    I would just wait and see who contacts you in the next couple of years and offer a low full and final settlement. 
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  • jazzyja
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    gizmo111 said:
    jazzyja said:
    How are you proving to your parents where this deposit money is going? I mean they're giving you 50-60% of your house but can't let you have 5k out of it? (drop in the ocean in terms of 60% of a house) bit backwards if you ask me. Theyre old fashioned but happy to let you continue to pay rent for even longer/pay whacking interest rates because of this default. Doesnt make sense. You say it was a bad time in your life, maybe explain that to your parents. 
    Well even if he pays the debt in full, it will still be a default for over £5k which would still attract higher interest rates from mortgage companies, even though it is satisfied, and will remain on his credit file for another 3 years, whatever he does.
    I would just wait and see who contacts you in the next couple of years and offer a low full and final settlement. 
    But settled default looks better no? Plus why wouldn't you clear your debt with a wad a cash of that amount. Again, doesn't make sense.
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