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jazzyja said:How are you proving to your parents where this deposit money is going? I mean they're giving you 50-60% of your house but can't let you have 5k out of it? (drop in the ocean in terms of 60% of a house) bit backwards if you ask me. Theyre old fashioned but happy to let you continue to pay rent for even longer/pay whacking interest rates because of this default. Doesnt make sense. You say it was a bad time in your life, maybe explain that to your parents.
I would just wait and see who contacts you in the next couple of years and offer a low full and final settlement.Mama read so much about the dangers of drinking alcohol and eating chocolate that she immediately gave up reading.0 -
gizmo111 said:jazzyja said:How are you proving to your parents where this deposit money is going? I mean they're giving you 50-60% of your house but can't let you have 5k out of it? (drop in the ocean in terms of 60% of a house) bit backwards if you ask me. Theyre old fashioned but happy to let you continue to pay rent for even longer/pay whacking interest rates because of this default. Doesnt make sense. You say it was a bad time in your life, maybe explain that to your parents.
I would just wait and see who contacts you in the next couple of years and offer a low full and final settlement.0
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