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Law breaking neighbour - advice please
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I think you've probably bought a house that is in a bad position for your temperament and concerns. You're not the first to do that and you certainly won't be the last. I doubt if you'll be happy there, so treat it as a stepping stone and learn to use imagination and your experience when choosing the next one. That's what most of us do.
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I’ve had enough, I feel like this man is just tormenting me all the time. Ultimately he brought all of his problems on himself by raising the ground level.0
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Thanks all for the replies. Couple of points of clarification. Perhaps I didn’t make myself clear in terms of the ground level situation. The fence is now at an acceptable height, in that I can no longer see him when he’s in his garden, the cost for that is that the fence is almost 9 feet on my side in order to make it 6 feet on his. That’s 50% higher than most garden fences.Regarding my first steps, I tried to discuss the issue with him on 5 or 6 occasions without success prior to involving the local authority, I do not think that is an unreasonable amount of effort to make before proceeding to the next step.My issue with his law breaking is his persistent disregard for the planning laws. These structures he’s build are not compliant0
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AW618 said:If you were worried about privacy why build decking in a place where it is clearly overlooked by your neighbour, and why then complain again when he builds a fence which means he can no longer see onto your decking? You say at the beginning that you tried to "negotiate removing the fence and re-siting it on higher ground "; isn't that effectively what you now have?
I have to say that if I were told this story without comment I would assume the builder of the decking had built it purely to achieve this outcome.0 -
DanMc52 said:AW618 said:If you were worried about privacy why build decking in a place where it is clearly overlooked by your neighbour, and why then complain again when he builds a fence which means he can no longer see onto your decking? You say at the beginning that you tried to "negotiate removing the fence and re-siting it on higher ground "; isn't that effectively what you now have?
I have to say that if I were told this story without comment I would assume the builder of the decking had built it purely to achieve this outcome.There's always a worse scenario. He could have planted trees. No law against that.You're a bit hung up on planning laws. If I'd been similarly minded I'd have walked away from my house, as by law I'm not entitled to live in it, though after 11 years and no enforcement, it's too late for the council to act. Councils are very strapped, so finicky application of planning laws is no longer within their ability. Maybe this is sad, but it's part of the new normal.
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DanMc52 said:Thanks all for the replies. Couple of points of clarification. Perhaps I didn’t make myself clear in terms of the ground level situation. The fence is now at an acceptable height, in that I can no longer see him when he’s in his garden, the cost for that is that the fence is almost 9 feet on my side in order to make it 6 feet on his. That’s 50% higher than most garden fences.Regarding my first steps, I tried to discuss the issue with him on 5 or 6 occasions without success prior to involving the local authority, I do not think that is an unreasonable amount of effort to make before proceeding to the next step.My issue with his law breaking is his persistent disregard for the planning laws. These structures he’s build are not compliant
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DanMc52 said:AW618 said:If you were worried about privacy why build decking in a place where it is clearly overlooked by your neighbour, and why then complain again when he builds a fence which means he can no longer see onto your decking? You say at the beginning that you tried to "negotiate removing the fence and re-siting it on higher ground "; isn't that effectively what you now have?
I have to say that if I were told this story without comment I would assume the builder of the decking had built it purely to achieve this outcome.0 -
You need to moveAn answer isn't spam just because you don't like it......1
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Comms69 said:DanMc52 said:Thanks all for the replies. Couple of points of clarification. Perhaps I didn’t make myself clear in terms of the ground level situation. The fence is now at an acceptable height, in that I can no longer see him when he’s in his garden, the cost for that is that the fence is almost 9 feet on my side in order to make it 6 feet on his. That’s 50% higher than most garden fences.Regarding my first steps, I tried to discuss the issue with him on 5 or 6 occasions without success prior to involving the local authority, I do not think that is an unreasonable amount of effort to make before proceeding to the next step.My issue with his law breaking is his persistent disregard for the planning laws. These structures he’s build are not compliant0
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Is the option (though not sure if possible now), either raise your own ground by 3ft, making the fence on 6ft again. Or the decking could have been made 3ft off the floor, this would mean that the fence is effectively 6ft, so casting less of a shadow.I know there are planning rules around decking that you might want to review. I don't see any other options if I'm honest.1
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