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Employment gaps shouldn't matter should they?
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Does this mean if i prepared for and passed a driving test i would get offered an accountants job? And if i failed to prepare and failed the driving test i would be no good as an accountant even if i had a phd in accountancy?AW618 said:
You keep saying this, no matter how many times it is explained to you that it tells you far more than that. Why are you so convinced that being able to think and adapt or prepare are no use in any job?Planet_Switzerland said:
I don't think there are that many people out there who will turn your workplace into a seething put of resentment and conflict. I do however think those people tend to be ones who have no problem getting through interviews.AW618 said:
No, you don't. You know why? Because you only have to deal with them once for a short period.Planet_Switzerland said:AW618 said:
It is usually the way to find the best candidate. However many times you repeat your personal anecdotes they remain your personal anecdotes, and even if you are as good as you think you are and it really is just office poltics that your current employers don't trust you do the things you think you can do, someone that good who is awful at interviews is rare enough that they don't care if they miss out on you.Planet_Switzerland said:
It isn't the best way to find the best candidate though. Maybe it's a good way if it's for a sales job or something similar where it's about your ability to talk the talk.AW618 said:
You have just stated what is obviously the best way to find the best candidate as though it is some evil plan.donnajunkie said:
I suspect that its just an unfair method of making it easy to pick. They could have 50 all perfectly acceptable so how do they decide? Answer? They make the interview process tougher.Smodlet said:I am no authority but I have heard it is expensive to advertise vacancies and to recruit candidates ergo, it does not make much sense to "set people up to fail" at interviews when the purpose is to find someone to do a job, not to go on a power trip; I am not saying this never happens.
How on earth is it unfair to choose the best people? They don't have to give everyone who could possibly do the job an equal chance, that would be insane. Even if they get it wrong, and nothing you have said really indicates that anyone is, they are trying to cut down the candidates to find the best, not arbitrarily exclude people. What would be their motivation in doing that rather than, as I have already said, just binning 30 of the 50 CVs?
Personally speaking, I have worked in various jobs for over 20 years now and have been considered a good worker in the vast majority of them both in terms of ability to do the job and work ethic. I have received awards for my work, I was acknowledged by the MD in my last job for the great work I did on the first project I worked on there, I was employee of the month twice in a 6 month maternity cover job, I was offered a permanent job after 2 days in a 2 week temporary job because they'd never known anyone to pick up the job so quickly.
My interview record on the other hand is abysmal. I've now had 30 failed interviews in the last 2.5 years, got feedback from the latest one today.
I've only had one job where they would probably say I was rubbish. The funny thing about that particular job was that I was offered the job there and then at the interview such was the impression I made.
I know the obvious thing to do is try and get better at interviews but that's easier said than done. But even if I do somehow manage to get better at interviews, it won't mean I'd be any better at my job.
I don't think I am a rare case. When you need your car fixing, you don't ring up mechanics and say "Tell me about a time when you had a disagreement with a colleague and what steps did you take to resolve it?" because you know their ability to answer that question has no bearing on their ability to fix your car. If that was the criteria people did use when picking a mechanic then people who are great at answering those questions but know nothing about cars will start opening garages and do a shoddy job of fixing peoples cars.
If you want to employ a mechanic, though, finding out whether he is likely to turn your workplace into a seething pit of resentment and conflict is a good idea, as it will clearly interfere with the ability of your business to fix cars.
I mean, surely you can see that, can't you?
Look, I get that an employer needs to meet a candidate before giving them the job and that they want to get an idea of whether they can do the job and whether they'll get along with others. In reality your typical job interview questions don't tell you either of those, they just tell you whether someones good at interviews or not. I've been the other side of the fence myself, it told me nothing about what the candidate would be like at their job.
Let's turn it round, in what way are you "bad at interviews"? Tell me why and I will try and explain why that makes you a less desirable employee.
they can get rid of the silly questions and if you do well that would show you prepared well.0 -
No, that is a basic, simple fact that everybody knows. Being able to think on your feet and react makes you a better teacher than someone who can't do that. Most interviewees will be "able to do the job", you want the one that can go beyond performing the basics adequately.donnajunkie said:
Because those aspects are just about using a lazy way to shorten the list to make their job easier. The aspects that are relevant are what is used to identify suitable candidates, the rest is to shorten the list. If i was a maths teacher going for a job they could ask me a load of questions about english which would require thinking on my feet etc and i may well get most correct. If you think me getting a load of english questions correct tells them that i would be a good maths teacher then thats your prerogative.AW618 said:
Please tell me why it is unfair to find the best person. You simply refuse to address any of the points I have repeatedly made telling you why these questions allow them to chosoe a more suitable individual, instead repeating again and again that it is "just being good at interviews". it isn't. It is at the very least being good at relating to other people, showing basic sense and thinking on your feet and if those things are not important in the jobs you are applying for, then I don't know what jobs those could be.donnajunkie said:
We all know they dont care. However it does go towards backing up my stance that alot of what happens in an interview is unfair. I agree more will get through it ok than dont but it still serves the purpose i suggest of reducing the list. The issue is its by flawed, unfair methods.AW618 said:
It is usually the way to find the best candidate. However many times you repeat your personal anecdotes they remain your personal anecdotes, and even if you are as good as you think you are and it really is just office poltics that your current employers don't trust you do the things you think you can do, someone that good who is awful at interviews is rare enough that they don't care if they miss out on you.Planet_Switzerland said:
It isn't the best way to find the best candidate though. Maybe it's a good way if it's for a sales job or something similar where it's about your ability to talk the talk.AW618 said:
You have just stated what is obviously the best way to find the best candidate as though it is some evil plan.donnajunkie said:
I suspect that its just an unfair method of making it easy to pick. They could have 50 all perfectly acceptable so how do they decide? Answer? They make the interview process tougher.Smodlet said:I am no authority but I have heard it is expensive to advertise vacancies and to recruit candidates ergo, it does not make much sense to "set people up to fail" at interviews when the purpose is to find someone to do a job, not to go on a power trip; I am not saying this never happens.
How on earth is it unfair to choose the best people? They don't have to give everyone who could possibly do the job an equal chance, that would be insane. Even if they get it wrong, and nothing you have said really indicates that anyone is, they are trying to cut down the candidates to find the best, not arbitrarily exclude people. What would be their motivation in doing that rather than, as I have already said, just binning 30 of the 50 CVs?
Personally speaking, I have worked in various jobs for over 20 years now and have been considered a good worker in the vast majority of them both in terms of ability to do the job and work ethic. I have received awards for my work, I was acknowledged by the MD in my last job for the great work I did on the first project I worked on there, I was employee of the month twice in a 6 month maternity cover job, I was offered a permanent job after 2 days in a 2 week temporary job because they'd never known anyone to pick up the job so quickly.
My interview record on the other hand is abysmal. I've now had 30 failed interviews in the last 2.5 years, got feedback from the latest one today.
I've only had one job where they would probably say I was rubbish. The funny thing about that particular job was that I was offered the job there and then at the interview such was the impression I made.
I know the obvious thing to do is try and get better at interviews but that's easier said than done. But even if I do somehow manage to get better at interviews, it won't mean I'd be any better at my job.
Why do you refuse to accept that having these common, transferable skills can make someone a better employee? This is not difficult, but you just repeat yourself over and over again. Listen to what people say to you, think, and react. That might make you better at interviews.1 -
No, of course it doesn't. But if you have two accountants and one can drive and the other can't, and they are otherwise identical, you would hire the one who can drive if there is the slightest chance that their driving would ever be useful to the business, even to the extent of getting them there if public transport went on strike. Why wouldn't you?donnajunkie said:
Does this mean if i prepared for and passed a driving test i would get offered an accountants job? And if i failed to prepare and failed the driving test i would be no good as an accountant even if i had a phd in accountancy?AW618 said:
You keep saying this, no matter how many times it is explained to you that it tells you far more than that. Why are you so convinced that being able to think and adapt or prepare are no use in any job?Planet_Switzerland said:
I don't think there are that many people out there who will turn your workplace into a seething put of resentment and conflict. I do however think those people tend to be ones who have no problem getting through interviews.AW618 said:
No, you don't. You know why? Because you only have to deal with them once for a short period.Planet_Switzerland said:AW618 said:
It is usually the way to find the best candidate. However many times you repeat your personal anecdotes they remain your personal anecdotes, and even if you are as good as you think you are and it really is just office poltics that your current employers don't trust you do the things you think you can do, someone that good who is awful at interviews is rare enough that they don't care if they miss out on you.Planet_Switzerland said:
It isn't the best way to find the best candidate though. Maybe it's a good way if it's for a sales job or something similar where it's about your ability to talk the talk.AW618 said:
You have just stated what is obviously the best way to find the best candidate as though it is some evil plan.donnajunkie said:
I suspect that its just an unfair method of making it easy to pick. They could have 50 all perfectly acceptable so how do they decide? Answer? They make the interview process tougher.Smodlet said:I am no authority but I have heard it is expensive to advertise vacancies and to recruit candidates ergo, it does not make much sense to "set people up to fail" at interviews when the purpose is to find someone to do a job, not to go on a power trip; I am not saying this never happens.
How on earth is it unfair to choose the best people? They don't have to give everyone who could possibly do the job an equal chance, that would be insane. Even if they get it wrong, and nothing you have said really indicates that anyone is, they are trying to cut down the candidates to find the best, not arbitrarily exclude people. What would be their motivation in doing that rather than, as I have already said, just binning 30 of the 50 CVs?
Personally speaking, I have worked in various jobs for over 20 years now and have been considered a good worker in the vast majority of them both in terms of ability to do the job and work ethic. I have received awards for my work, I was acknowledged by the MD in my last job for the great work I did on the first project I worked on there, I was employee of the month twice in a 6 month maternity cover job, I was offered a permanent job after 2 days in a 2 week temporary job because they'd never known anyone to pick up the job so quickly.
My interview record on the other hand is abysmal. I've now had 30 failed interviews in the last 2.5 years, got feedback from the latest one today.
I've only had one job where they would probably say I was rubbish. The funny thing about that particular job was that I was offered the job there and then at the interview such was the impression I made.
I know the obvious thing to do is try and get better at interviews but that's easier said than done. But even if I do somehow manage to get better at interviews, it won't mean I'd be any better at my job.
I don't think I am a rare case. When you need your car fixing, you don't ring up mechanics and say "Tell me about a time when you had a disagreement with a colleague and what steps did you take to resolve it?" because you know their ability to answer that question has no bearing on their ability to fix your car. If that was the criteria people did use when picking a mechanic then people who are great at answering those questions but know nothing about cars will start opening garages and do a shoddy job of fixing peoples cars.
If you want to employ a mechanic, though, finding out whether he is likely to turn your workplace into a seething pit of resentment and conflict is a good idea, as it will clearly interfere with the ability of your business to fix cars.
I mean, surely you can see that, can't you?
Look, I get that an employer needs to meet a candidate before giving them the job and that they want to get an idea of whether they can do the job and whether they'll get along with others. In reality your typical job interview questions don't tell you either of those, they just tell you whether someones good at interviews or not. I've been the other side of the fence myself, it told me nothing about what the candidate would be like at their job.
Let's turn it round, in what way are you "bad at interviews"? Tell me why and I will try and explain why that makes you a less desirable employee.
they can get rid of the silly questions and if you do well that would show you prepared well.1 -
donnajunkie said:
Because those aspects are just about using a lazy way to shorten the list to make their job easier. The aspects that are relevant are what is used to identify suitable candidates, the rest is to shorten the list. If i was a maths teacher going for a job they could ask me a load of questions about english which would require thinking on my feet etc and i may well get most correct. If you think me getting a load of english questions correct tells them that i would be a good maths teacher then thats your prerogative.AW618 said:
Please tell me why it is unfair to find the best person. You simply refuse to address any of the points I have repeatedly made telling you why these questions allow them to chosoe a more suitable individual, instead repeating again and again that it is "just being good at interviews". it isn't. It is at the very least being good at relating to other people, showing basic sense and thinking on your feet and if those things are not important in the jobs you are applying for, then I don't know what jobs those could be.donnajunkie said:
We all know they dont care. However it does go towards backing up my stance that alot of what happens in an interview is unfair. I agree more will get through it ok than dont but it still serves the purpose i suggest of reducing the list. The issue is its by flawed, unfair methods.AW618 said:
It is usually the way to find the best candidate. However many times you repeat your personal anecdotes they remain your personal anecdotes, and even if you are as good as you think you are and it really is just office poltics that your current employers don't trust you do the things you think you can do, someone that good who is awful at interviews is rare enough that they don't care if they miss out on you.Planet_Switzerland said:
It isn't the best way to find the best candidate though. Maybe it's a good way if it's for a sales job or something similar where it's about your ability to talk the talk.AW618 said:
You have just stated what is obviously the best way to find the best candidate as though it is some evil plan.donnajunkie said:
I suspect that its just an unfair method of making it easy to pick. They could have 50 all perfectly acceptable so how do they decide? Answer? They make the interview process tougher.Smodlet said:I am no authority but I have heard it is expensive to advertise vacancies and to recruit candidates ergo, it does not make much sense to "set people up to fail" at interviews when the purpose is to find someone to do a job, not to go on a power trip; I am not saying this never happens.
How on earth is it unfair to choose the best people? They don't have to give everyone who could possibly do the job an equal chance, that would be insane. Even if they get it wrong, and nothing you have said really indicates that anyone is, they are trying to cut down the candidates to find the best, not arbitrarily exclude people. What would be their motivation in doing that rather than, as I have already said, just binning 30 of the 50 CVs?
Personally speaking, I have worked in various jobs for over 20 years now and have been considered a good worker in the vast majority of them both in terms of ability to do the job and work ethic. I have received awards for my work, I was acknowledged by the MD in my last job for the great work I did on the first project I worked on there, I was employee of the month twice in a 6 month maternity cover job, I was offered a permanent job after 2 days in a 2 week temporary job because they'd never known anyone to pick up the job so quickly.
My interview record on the other hand is abysmal. I've now had 30 failed interviews in the last 2.5 years, got feedback from the latest one today.
I've only had one job where they would probably say I was rubbish. The funny thing about that particular job was that I was offered the job there and then at the interview such was the impression I made.
I know the obvious thing to do is try and get better at interviews but that's easier said than done. But even if I do somehow manage to get better at interviews, it won't mean I'd be any better at my job.From the employer's point of view doing the recruitment fast and easily is the recruiter doing their job well, so long as the person recruited is good. Their job is to serve the business, not the candidates. Once the recruiter has established that they have several candidates who all have good job skills they need to choose between them - somehow. They could simply pull a name out of a hat, but generally they look beyond the core job skills to other things which they think could be of advantage to the business.In your example, if a school is choosing between several good maths teachers it makes complete sense to look at their English skills. It is useful if the maths teacher could cover for English lessons if needed, it is good for students and school if all their teachers have good English.
But a banker, engaged at enormous expense,Had the whole of their cash in his care.
Lewis Carroll1 -
So at the very least, you are poor under pressure. Why not hire someone who is as good as you generally but better under pressure? How can the company lose from that?Planet_Switzerland said:
It may have it's uses, but it says nothing about their ability to do the job or even what they're like as a person. It may show they prepare, but I'm sure the people who give a weak answer have also prepared too.AW618 said:
You keep saying this, no matter how many times it is explained to you that it tells you far more than that. Why are you so convinced that being able to think and adapt or prepare are no use in any job?Planet_Switzerland said:
I don't think there are that many people out there who will turn your workplace into a seething put of resentment and conflict. I do however think those people tend to be ones who have no problem getting through interviews.AW618 said:
No, you don't. You know why? Because you only have to deal with them once for a short period.Planet_Switzerland said:AW618 said:
It is usually the way to find the best candidate. However many times you repeat your personal anecdotes they remain your personal anecdotes, and even if you are as good as you think you are and it really is just office poltics that your current employers don't trust you do the things you think you can do, someone that good who is awful at interviews is rare enough that they don't care if they miss out on you.Planet_Switzerland said:
It isn't the best way to find the best candidate though. Maybe it's a good way if it's for a sales job or something similar where it's about your ability to talk the talk.AW618 said:
You have just stated what is obviously the best way to find the best candidate as though it is some evil plan.donnajunkie said:
I suspect that its just an unfair method of making it easy to pick. They could have 50 all perfectly acceptable so how do they decide? Answer? They make the interview process tougher.Smodlet said:I am no authority but I have heard it is expensive to advertise vacancies and to recruit candidates ergo, it does not make much sense to "set people up to fail" at interviews when the purpose is to find someone to do a job, not to go on a power trip; I am not saying this never happens.
How on earth is it unfair to choose the best people? They don't have to give everyone who could possibly do the job an equal chance, that would be insane. Even if they get it wrong, and nothing you have said really indicates that anyone is, they are trying to cut down the candidates to find the best, not arbitrarily exclude people. What would be their motivation in doing that rather than, as I have already said, just binning 30 of the 50 CVs?
Personally speaking, I have worked in various jobs for over 20 years now and have been considered a good worker in the vast majority of them both in terms of ability to do the job and work ethic. I have received awards for my work, I was acknowledged by the MD in my last job for the great work I did on the first project I worked on there, I was employee of the month twice in a 6 month maternity cover job, I was offered a permanent job after 2 days in a 2 week temporary job because they'd never known anyone to pick up the job so quickly.
My interview record on the other hand is abysmal. I've now had 30 failed interviews in the last 2.5 years, got feedback from the latest one today.
I've only had one job where they would probably say I was rubbish. The funny thing about that particular job was that I was offered the job there and then at the interview such was the impression I made.
I know the obvious thing to do is try and get better at interviews but that's easier said than done. But even if I do somehow manage to get better at interviews, it won't mean I'd be any better at my job.
I don't think I am a rare case. When you need your car fixing, you don't ring up mechanics and say "Tell me about a time when you had a disagreement with a colleague and what steps did you take to resolve it?" because you know their ability to answer that question has no bearing on their ability to fix your car. If that was the criteria people did use when picking a mechanic then people who are great at answering those questions but know nothing about cars will start opening garages and do a shoddy job of fixing peoples cars.
If you want to employ a mechanic, though, finding out whether he is likely to turn your workplace into a seething pit of resentment and conflict is a good idea, as it will clearly interfere with the ability of your business to fix cars.
I mean, surely you can see that, can't you?
Look, I get that an employer needs to meet a candidate before giving them the job and that they want to get an idea of whether they can do the job and whether they'll get along with others. In reality your typical job interview questions don't tell you either of those, they just tell you whether someones good at interviews or not. I've been the other side of the fence myself, it told me nothing about what the candidate would be like at their job.
Let's turn it round, in what way are you "bad at interviews"? Tell me why and I will try and explain why that makes you a less desirable employee.
I'd say 30 failed interviews in the last 2 years is evident enough that I'm bad at interviews. Last weeks interview said that I didn't give solid enough examples. Other interviews have been along the lines of not the right type of experience or better candidates generally speaking. Annoyingly some have implied I don't have experience that I do have, others are along the lines of you drive a red car but this job involves driving a blue car.
There have been other interviews where I've messed up on a presentation or a test. In my job I've presented to the management board, at conferences and company wide presentations, but I've never found any of them as intimidating as presenting at an interview. The way things have gone in recent years in my job together with the number of rejections I've had has made it worse. That's why I'm messing up the tests too, the last one I did is something I've done many times before.
Incidentally, if they say you didn't have experience that you do have, they are probably covering up the fact that they didn't want you for some more personal reason which is something they are never going to say directly. There is absolutely no advantage to them in doing so.1 -
Assuming that yes you are bad at interviews, where do you go from here? I guess a careers coach would tell you to connect with the interviewer beforehand, maybe a phone call, or maybe an "accidental" meeting at the nearest coffee shop. If they already like you, you will score better.Planet_Switzerland said:I'd say 30 failed interviews in the last 2 years is evident enough that I'm bad at interviews. Last weeks interview said that I didn't give solid enough examples. Other interviews have been along the lines of not the right type of experience or better candidates generally speaking. Annoyingly some have implied I don't have experience that I do have, others are along the lines of you drive a red car but this job involves driving a blue car.
There have been other interviews where I've messed up on a presentation or a test. In my job I've presented to the management board, at conferences and company wide presentations, but I've never found any of them as intimidating as presenting at an interview. The way things have gone in recent years in my job together with the number of rejections I've had has made it worse. That's why I'm messing up the tests too, the last one I did is something I've done many times before.0 -
Can I just check this. Are you suggesting that they find out who will be interviewing them, stalk them, find out who they are and track their movements so they can "accidentally" bump into them at a coffee shop and try and make friends with them?Andrea_jardin said:
Assuming that yes you are bad at interviews, where do you go from here? I guess a careers coach would tell you to connect with the interviewer beforehand, maybe a phone call, or maybe an "accidental" meeting at the nearest coffee shop. If they already like you, you will score better.Planet_Switzerland said:I'd say 30 failed interviews in the last 2 years is evident enough that I'm bad at interviews. Last weeks interview said that I didn't give solid enough examples. Other interviews have been along the lines of not the right type of experience or better candidates generally speaking. Annoyingly some have implied I don't have experience that I do have, others are along the lines of you drive a red car but this job involves driving a blue car.
There have been other interviews where I've messed up on a presentation or a test. In my job I've presented to the management board, at conferences and company wide presentations, but I've never found any of them as intimidating as presenting at an interview. The way things have gone in recent years in my job together with the number of rejections I've had has made it worse. That's why I'm messing up the tests too, the last one I did is something I've done many times before.
A phone call to the company asking if the interviewer would like to have a preliminary discussion about the role is quite acceptable, as long as you accept a refusal and don't take up too much of their time. The above, though, is lunacy.1 -
Because "We thought he was dull as a brush" or "I just didn't like looking at him" or "he bored me rigid" are not things anyone is going to say.Planet_Switzerland said:
It depends what sort of pressure, if I'm put under pressure in the job itself I'm fine. If they have a personal reason for not hiring me why wouldn't they say something like not a cultural fit? Not disagreeing, just seems an odd reason to give if it's personal when there are other legitimate reasons you could give.AW618 said:
So at the very least, you are poor under pressure. Why not hire someone who is as good as you generally but better under pressure? How can the company lose from that?Planet_Switzerland said:
It may have it's uses, but it says nothing about their ability to do the job or even what they're like as a person. It may show they prepare, but I'm sure the people who give a weak answer have also prepared too.AW618 said:
You keep saying this, no matter how many times it is explained to you that it tells you far more than that. Why are you so convinced that being able to think and adapt or prepare are no use in any job?Planet_Switzerland said:
I don't think there are that many people out there who will turn your workplace into a seething put of resentment and conflict. I do however think those people tend to be ones who have no problem getting through interviews.AW618 said:
No, you don't. You know why? Because you only have to deal with them once for a short period.Planet_Switzerland said:AW618 said:
It is usually the way to find the best candidate. However many times you repeat your personal anecdotes they remain your personal anecdotes, and even if you are as good as you think you are and it really is just office poltics that your current employers don't trust you do the things you think you can do, someone that good who is awful at interviews is rare enough that they don't care if they miss out on you.Planet_Switzerland said:
It isn't the best way to find the best candidate though. Maybe it's a good way if it's for a sales job or something similar where it's about your ability to talk the talk.AW618 said:
You have just stated what is obviously the best way to find the best candidate as though it is some evil plan.donnajunkie said:
I suspect that its just an unfair method of making it easy to pick. They could have 50 all perfectly acceptable so how do they decide? Answer? They make the interview process tougher.Smodlet said:I am no authority but I have heard it is expensive to advertise vacancies and to recruit candidates ergo, it does not make much sense to "set people up to fail" at interviews when the purpose is to find someone to do a job, not to go on a power trip; I am not saying this never happens.
How on earth is it unfair to choose the best people? They don't have to give everyone who could possibly do the job an equal chance, that would be insane. Even if they get it wrong, and nothing you have said really indicates that anyone is, they are trying to cut down the candidates to find the best, not arbitrarily exclude people. What would be their motivation in doing that rather than, as I have already said, just binning 30 of the 50 CVs?
Personally speaking, I have worked in various jobs for over 20 years now and have been considered a good worker in the vast majority of them both in terms of ability to do the job and work ethic. I have received awards for my work, I was acknowledged by the MD in my last job for the great work I did on the first project I worked on there, I was employee of the month twice in a 6 month maternity cover job, I was offered a permanent job after 2 days in a 2 week temporary job because they'd never known anyone to pick up the job so quickly.
My interview record on the other hand is abysmal. I've now had 30 failed interviews in the last 2.5 years, got feedback from the latest one today.
I've only had one job where they would probably say I was rubbish. The funny thing about that particular job was that I was offered the job there and then at the interview such was the impression I made.
I know the obvious thing to do is try and get better at interviews but that's easier said than done. But even if I do somehow manage to get better at interviews, it won't mean I'd be any better at my job.
I don't think I am a rare case. When you need your car fixing, you don't ring up mechanics and say "Tell me about a time when you had a disagreement with a colleague and what steps did you take to resolve it?" because you know their ability to answer that question has no bearing on their ability to fix your car. If that was the criteria people did use when picking a mechanic then people who are great at answering those questions but know nothing about cars will start opening garages and do a shoddy job of fixing peoples cars.
If you want to employ a mechanic, though, finding out whether he is likely to turn your workplace into a seething pit of resentment and conflict is a good idea, as it will clearly interfere with the ability of your business to fix cars.
I mean, surely you can see that, can't you?
Look, I get that an employer needs to meet a candidate before giving them the job and that they want to get an idea of whether they can do the job and whether they'll get along with others. In reality your typical job interview questions don't tell you either of those, they just tell you whether someones good at interviews or not. I've been the other side of the fence myself, it told me nothing about what the candidate would be like at their job.
Let's turn it round, in what way are you "bad at interviews"? Tell me why and I will try and explain why that makes you a less desirable employee.
I'd say 30 failed interviews in the last 2 years is evident enough that I'm bad at interviews. Last weeks interview said that I didn't give solid enough examples. Other interviews have been along the lines of not the right type of experience or better candidates generally speaking. Annoyingly some have implied I don't have experience that I do have, others are along the lines of you drive a red car but this job involves driving a blue car.
There have been other interviews where I've messed up on a presentation or a test. In my job I've presented to the management board, at conferences and company wide presentations, but I've never found any of them as intimidating as presenting at an interview. The way things have gone in recent years in my job together with the number of rejections I've had has made it worse. That's why I'm messing up the tests too, the last one I did is something I've done many times before.
Incidentally, if they say you didn't have experience that you do have, they are probably covering up the fact that they didn't want you for some more personal reason which is something they are never going to say directly. There is absolutely no advantage to them in doing so.
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Well stalking is taking it a bit far! Maybe an industry event would be a better place than a coffee shop.AW618 said: Can I just check this. Are you suggesting that they find out who will be interviewing them, stalk them, find out who they are and track their movements so they can "accidentally" bump into them at a coffee shop and try and make friends with them?0 -
I think this thread has shown up the difference between those who can put themselves in an interviewer's position and those who cannot. To those who cannot, perhaps you should consider addressing yourselves to this as it may help you in interviews if you have some idea what is required of you... Or you could just keep on with your, "It's not fair". What does that make you sound like?
If what you are doing is not working, it may be time to change what you are doing rather than to expect employers suddenly to change their way of conducting interviews: Your choice.0
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