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My Ex Partner refuses to sell the house.


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If she continues to obstruct the process I think you're only option will be to go back to court for enforcement and possibly, contempt of court proceedings.1
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Thanks pphillips. thats really a helpful . I am considering abitration or something as the court proceedings will take longer than usual due to corrent covid19 delays and Ex will utilise that delay as her excuse and can drag the matter then will trun up with delievery time is closer then come to the point of "cant move out now ". Timing is the key factor here. Speedy process is the best option.Does any one have an idea of "Arbitration hearing " or something. ? As per goolge its bit costly business ? couldnt find any better details on the web. .0
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It's mediation you want.
Have you tried offering her cold, hard cash to get out?Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.1 -
Heres a link to how arbitration works for children - I believe they do finance also, but your solicitor may know someone nearer to you
https://childreninthemiddle.co.uk/arbitration/
Mama read so much about the dangers of drinking alcohol and eating chocolate that she immediately gave up reading.1 -
MovingForwards said:It's mediation you want.
Have you tried offering her cold, hard cash to get out?Thanks MovingForwards for the response.When i put forward the offer to buy her out, thats her share of cash and get out of the house. But still shes not cooperating with my convencing solicitors once they have started the process and contated her. Even though shes a solicitor herself. which sounds funny but its true.
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Mediation and negotiation come before (not after) a consent order.
An arbitrator won't touch anything that's already been to court.
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pphillips said:roopscisco said:pphillips said:MovingForwards said:roopscisco said:MovingForwards said:It's mediation you want.
Have you tried offering her cold, hard cash to get out?Thanks MovingForwards for the response.When i put forward the offer to buy her out, thats her share of cash and get out of the house. But still shes not cooperating with my convencing solicitors once they have started the process and contated her. Even though shes a solicitor herself. which sounds funny but its true.
By cash I actually meant on top of what has already been agreed.
Just ask you solicitors what can be done, how much it will cost for them to do it and then have them draw up another letter to her with an additional paragraph about the costs coming out of what would be sent to her.
Legal people always think they know best when it comes to anything legal based in their private life.
It might not work anyway if they were to accept the bribe but still refuse to move and ask for more.
Do you really think the OP should allow themselves to be blackmailed and held to ransom?Thanks , but i dont have to go into bribery route or any such, as i have a consent clear court order saying whats her share and what’s my share. so that’s not something i would think of. The Only thing i dont understand or concerned is that, her Pregnancy situation can stand anything to prevent my purchase even if i walk into court while her own property is rented and fully functional. Her Pregnancy is nothing to do with me. Any idea on that point as i read a lot on goggle court would look favour to her due to Pregnancy.
I can't think of any legitimate excuse for not following a court order.
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roopscisco said:pphillips said:roopscisco said:pphillips said:MovingForwards said:roopscisco said:MovingForwards said:It's mediation you want.
Have you tried offering her cold, hard cash to get out?Thanks MovingForwards for the response.When i put forward the offer to buy her out, thats her share of cash and get out of the house. But still shes not cooperating with my convencing solicitors once they have started the process and contated her. Even though shes a solicitor herself. which sounds funny but its true.
By cash I actually meant on top of what has already been agreed.
Just ask you solicitors what can be done, how much it will cost for them to do it and then have them draw up another letter to her with an additional paragraph about the costs coming out of what would be sent to her.
Legal people always think they know best when it comes to anything legal based in their private life.
It might not work anyway if they were to accept the bribe but still refuse to move and ask for more.
Do you really think the OP should allow themselves to be blackmailed and held to ransom?Thanks , but i dont have to go into bribery route or any such, as i have a consent clear court order saying whats her share and what’s my share. so that’s not something i would think of. The Only thing i dont understand or concerned is that, her Pregnancy situation can stand anything to prevent my purchase even if i walk into court while her own property is rented and fully functional. Her Pregnancy is nothing to do with me. Any idea on that point as i read a lot on goggle court would look favour to her due to Pregnancy.
I can't think of any legitimate excuse for not following a court order.1 -
pphillips said:roopscisco said:pphillips said:roopscisco said:pphillips said:MovingForwards said:roopscisco said:MovingForwards said:It's mediation you want.
Have you tried offering her cold, hard cash to get out?Thanks MovingForwards for the response.When i put forward the offer to buy her out, thats her share of cash and get out of the house. But still shes not cooperating with my convencing solicitors once they have started the process and contated her. Even though shes a solicitor herself. which sounds funny but its true.
By cash I actually meant on top of what has already been agreed.
Just ask you solicitors what can be done, how much it will cost for them to do it and then have them draw up another letter to her with an additional paragraph about the costs coming out of what would be sent to her.
Legal people always think they know best when it comes to anything legal based in their private life.
It might not work anyway if they were to accept the bribe but still refuse to move and ask for more.
Do you really think the OP should allow themselves to be blackmailed and held to ransom?Thanks , but i dont have to go into bribery route or any such, as i have a consent clear court order saying whats her share and what’s my share. so that’s not something i would think of. The Only thing i dont understand or concerned is that, her Pregnancy situation can stand anything to prevent my purchase even if i walk into court while her own property is rented and fully functional. Her Pregnancy is nothing to do with me. Any idea on that point as i read a lot on goggle court would look favour to her due to Pregnancy.
I can't think of any legitimate excuse for not following a court order.
Would that be possible to change the consent order without any reason ? or becasue she became & is pragenet ? Can court would change the order ? i
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Unless it is your child, I fail to see any reason that would be relevant to an application for a change to a consent order.2
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