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Advice of how to deal with strange neighbor

Hi all,
I've never had any problems with any neighbours in the past - however few months ago I was accused by my next neighbour ( old lady living by herself ) of reporting her to the council for overgrown vegetation in her front garden , please note that i never filled any kind of report in my life.
Since then she always behave very strange, almost to a point where I really think she got mental issues.
This Sunday just gone,i've noticed her dumping rubbish on my front garden, I didn't really pay much attention to hit until i went to check my CCTV and noticed that she's spitting on the rubbish and then throwing it  ( this happened few times ), I'm absolutely shocked about her behaviour and finding this unacceptable especially during this pandemic.
Could anyone please advise me of what steps should i take ?

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  • TheAble
    TheAble Posts: 1,676 Forumite
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    I would notify the police and provide your cctv evidence.
  • Notify the police.  If they also believe she has some mental health issues after speaking with her then they will be able to file a vulnerable persons report for her and get her some help.  It doesn't sound like the kind of thing you should ignore, as much for her benefit as for yours.
  • olgadapolga
    olgadapolga Posts: 2,328 Forumite
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    Agreed. Notify the police as you have CCTV evidence to support your report.
  • bradders1983
    bradders1983 Posts: 5,684 Forumite
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    edited 5 May 2020 at 1:22PM
    Her spitting can easily be construed as her attempting to spread a virus and they are clamping down hard on that at the moment, people have been jailed for it recently.

    Contact the police.
  • EssJayD
    EssJayD Posts: 148 Forumite
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    My instant thought is that she doesn't sound well, agree with others to contact the police but more from a potential welfare point of view
  • Undervalued
    Undervalued Posts: 9,886 Forumite
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    Whilst I am not disagreeing as such with those suggesting contacting the police....
    Keep in mind that if / when that achieves rather less than you are hoping, you are still living next door to the problem.
    No easy answer I'm afraid.
  • haxor
    haxor Posts: 55 Forumite
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    Many thanks for all your responses.
    I've reported her to the police with all the evidence attached , she seems like a very troubled woman and I genuinely hope she will get the help she needs to behave like a normal person in this society.

    I'm still very shocked after watching the videos again,it's very disturbing - my Wife had an operation not long ago and her immune system is probably not great... and now she cant even feel safe at home, it's a horrible feeling.
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