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Can I pick a family member up

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Hi my daughter's boyfriend lives in catford london his 4month old son lives with us in the Midlands am I allowed to drive down to London to bring him up here to be with his son he's been working from home & self isolating for 3 weeks he can do that up here and be with his son who he's not seen for 4 weeks 
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  • DUTR
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    Doesn't sound a wise idea, the plan is to reduce the spread until the NHS can cope , no exception!
  • spiro
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    If your daughter lives with you and the plan is for her boyfriend to move to yours for the duration of the outbreak then under government guidance she could go and collect him. That said there are risks with a long journey and also London has a high rate of CV19.
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  • Scrapit
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    Can he travel independently?
  • Car_54
    Car_54 Posts: 8,837 Forumite
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    Have have you, and everyone in your household, been in isolation?
  • mobileron
    mobileron Posts: 1,218 Forumite
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    Ask him to use the train to you.
  • lesalanos
    lesalanos Posts: 863 Forumite
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    Much safer to pick him up than have him using public transport. 
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    edited 18 April 2020 at 11:37PM
    He's been working from home and self isolating so hasn't been mixing woth people who could have the virus. He's coming up to yours to live while the self distancing lockdown continues. Then I see no problem you going down to pick him up. If I was in the same situation I'd do the same.
    Ingnore the judgement zealous people who say you can't and that he must stay on his own miles away from his young family.
  • Car_54
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    He's been working from home and self isolating so hasn't been mixing woth people who could have the virus. He's coming up to yours to live while the self distancing lockdown continues. Then I see no problem you going down to pick him up. If I was in the same situation I'd do the same.
    Ingnore the judgement zealous people who say you can't and that he must stay on his own miles away from his young family.
    The OP hasn't answered the question "Have have you, and everyone in your household, been in isolation?". If the answer is no, then it's the son-in-law who's putting himself at risk.


  • Exemplar
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    I think the OP may never return to reply to their SPAM question.
    'Just because its on the internet don't believe it 100%'. Abraham Lincoln.

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  • Scrapit
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    Ingnore the sensible considerate people who say anyone with any sense wouldnt and shouldn't for the good of the country as a whole and those brave frontline NHS staff that risk their own lives and the lives of those they hold dearest, as well as keeping the UK economy protected by not prolonging this global pandemic.
    Yes, quite.
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