"Lightbulb moment - 67k down. Need to execute a recovery plan"

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Hi Guys
Gonna post my SOA in a sec....
Need some advice on what can be done, to trim some of the fat we have as we are up to our neck in debt.
This has been mainly due to my reckless spending and gambling. I am now doing my best to stop....used Gamcare, etc.
But the lightbulb moment with all this has to be the whole Coronavirus thing, which just shows that we need to have an emergency account and find our way out of this mess. Right now, if the worst was to happen dunno how we'd survive it.
I wanna use the current situation to help rebuild ourselves... with the reduced childcare costs (as kids are home) and the option for mortgage holiday. Perhaps by making use of these we can get some breathing space.
The SOA posted assumes still making full payment on everything, so hopefully all being well the next few months, with a bit extra in our pocket each month...some of the debts can be tackled even more. Although maybe some things like food cost may go up...due to us all being on lockdown.
Will take a look at the Stoozing calculator seperately, but i know it will prob suggest clearing the highest interest balance first... whereas I would prob prefer to clear the small cards first, and at least remove the minimum payment outgoing.
Not sure there is a lot to suggest to change, but will take whatever tips or suggestions you have.
thanks in advance
Gonna post my SOA in a sec....
Need some advice on what can be done, to trim some of the fat we have as we are up to our neck in debt.
This has been mainly due to my reckless spending and gambling. I am now doing my best to stop....used Gamcare, etc.
But the lightbulb moment with all this has to be the whole Coronavirus thing, which just shows that we need to have an emergency account and find our way out of this mess. Right now, if the worst was to happen dunno how we'd survive it.
I wanna use the current situation to help rebuild ourselves... with the reduced childcare costs (as kids are home) and the option for mortgage holiday. Perhaps by making use of these we can get some breathing space.
The SOA posted assumes still making full payment on everything, so hopefully all being well the next few months, with a bit extra in our pocket each month...some of the debts can be tackled even more. Although maybe some things like food cost may go up...due to us all being on lockdown.
Will take a look at the Stoozing calculator seperately, but i know it will prob suggest clearing the highest interest balance first... whereas I would prob prefer to clear the small cards first, and at least remove the minimum payment outgoing.
Not sure there is a lot to suggest to change, but will take whatever tips or suggestions you have.
thanks in advance
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I had most sucess in clearing debts when i stopped balance transferring but it may help you as you have a lot on really bad rates.
Personally i would prioritise your friends. Owing money to people rather than financial institutions is not a good idea for you personal relationships.
you also need to build up a £1k emergency fund so you dont dip back into debt in crisis.
what is the debt from, as you SOA shows you daily expensens outside debt are well within your means?
27/01/20: DEBT FREE!!!
Mortgage Free Wannabee: £58595 to pay by August 2025
Yes exactly... my plan was to do friends and small credit cards first.
As I said above, tbh... the debts have been down to years of gambling, and burying head in the sand about the problem. Currently managing that with therapy, gamcare, etc.
I also second paying friends first. It's not really an issue if you owe a financial institution but relationship with friends is another thing. It does feel a proud moment when you hand back what you owe. I think your soa looks good. Doesn't seem like any category is unrealistic.
Im glad you are getting help with gambling.
You have a good salary and this is totally doable. Its not ideal that we are in this stressful coronavirus situation.
Have you checked MSE eligibility calculator to see if you cna get any of the cards at 29% on to a 0% for a while.
It looks like you are rounding up your payments. Pick one and only make the minimums on everything else.
Presumably you will save a lot on petrol this month and you could pay back the friend you owe £200 to.
Once this coronavirus leaves us have you got anything you dont use you can sell? i know you dont get much but facebook marketplace got me a few hundred which made a dent for me and each credit line i paid off freed up more for the next one.
27/01/20: DEBT FREE!!!
Mortgage Free Wannabee: £58595 to pay by August 2025
I agree with you both. Friends...and then blitz a card. and get the ball rolling.
His baby steps keep you focussed, but i dont agree re paying off student loan or stopping pension while paying debt. Some things are different in the UK than America.
Make a signature for you profile to keep yourself accountable - it gives a little buzz when you can mark it down
27/01/20: DEBT FREE!!!
Mortgage Free Wannabee: £58595 to pay by August 2025
There are areas you may be able to trim a little in the SOA - and even pennies will make a difference - so start at the top and analyse every line - for example changing that council tax to 12 monthly if currently on 10 will free up £25 a month which you can divert straight to starting an emergency fund. Each time you make a saving, find a home for that money you are shaving off your spending - whether that is to start overpaying the highest interest debts, or building that EF.
Similarly on minimum payments - where it is workable to do so change those to a fixed amount each month slightly above the current monthly minimum - this means that the amount you pay stays the same each month - helping with budgeting, and over time that payment has more effect on the outstanding balance as it doesn't fall a little each month. You do need to keep a close eye on this though - and it is only suitable for credit cards you aren't using.
Hopefully you can make out my comments in the SOA - the bold formatting doesn't work inside a quote box!
One thing - there are a lot of "round figures" on that SOA - as someone else has said, this may well mean that you have rounded things up - it's worth going through and putting in truly accurate figures for things as that will free up a few odd £'s that can be paid off something. If you currently have the agreement with your friend to pay £50 a month I'm going to suggest sticking to that, and then moving any odd pennies and pounds plus anything left over at the end of the month to the lowest balance 29% interest debt. Then in another few months, there will be a £50 lump freed up when the debt to your friend has gone and that can be diverted the same way.
The next few weeks are a great opportunity to keep that food spend as low as possible as well - do a full stock take of everything you have and then work out what meals you can make from that. Then buy just the bare minimum you need to top up the fresh stuff, milk, bread etc.