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Too much cash in the house problem.

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  • cymruchris
    cymruchris Posts: 5,574 Forumite
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    Do you have a face to face relationship with anyone at the bank? Someone that you know by name? Could you take a wander in (maybe when we are in better times) and have a chat with them, outlining your fears, and see what they say? I'd be very honest and up-front - you certainly wouldn't be the first household to end up with a few thousand pounds under the floorboards. You did mention that over the years you withdrew money - but put the leftovers in the pile - were they regular withdrawals? You could point the bank to these - and then say that your mum didn't spend it, but kept on asking for the withdrawals, and is now sadly in a place where she can't respond of her own accord, but you need to ensure the money is in  a safer place. I do think in this case- being straightforward and honest will be the best approach to solving the problem. 
  • missile
    missile Posts: 11,813 Forumite
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    My bank has the option to deposit money out of hours. You could deposit a smaller amount (e.g. a few hundred) several times over a month or two without any issues.
    "A nation's greatness is measured by how it treats its weakest members." ~ Mahatma Gandhi
    Ride hard or stay home :iloveyou:
  • inkie1
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    How about taking out a couple of funeral plans - that would get rid of a few thousand. Pay the FD in cash. 
    Mortgage free since 2010 - in my 30s
    Previous profile inkie - but couldn't remember log-in details etc and so set this new profile up. 
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