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Husband with 1yo, wife leaving but I'm living in 2 bedroom rented house. What happens to benefits?

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  • Pottere wrote: »
    I am actually down as the primary carer because she's had mental health issues in the past but that no longer really needs to be the case so I presume she will want to be put down as the primary carer now but then again she might also just leave it so I don't know. We've agreed to a 1-way contact at the minute so I can't really ask her.

    My wife sent me a message though saying "I've been advised by the health visitor to go to the job center to see if the money for me and our 1yo can go in my single account, that has been sorted.". I don't know exactly what that means but I presume if she's getting our 1yo's part of the UC money then she will have had to have been made the primary carer to get it?


    From your posts, it seems that your child is with you, not mum. If you have your child at least four nights a week, you are the primary carer. However, from the infomation above, it looks as though your wife is receiving the money for your child.



    Can you clarify who the child is living with? If he is with you, do you intend him to stay with you?
  • Mojisola
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    Whose name is on the child benefit claim?
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