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£1000 up front on car repairs. 9 months later no repairs
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Long story short my precious classic car suffered frontal damage. A year or so later I had saved enough money to start repairs and probably pay for the remainder with loans,
A very good friend recommended a “very good friend” as contractor for the repairs Lets call him Tony.” After several F2F meetings with Tony we agreed on a quote (written down) but he needed £1000 up front to get the process going. Which I assumed was usual practice
During the NINE MONTHS possession the only “work” he did was cut off the bumper with a grinder, and detach a wing . My current mechanic (Brett) says this would have taken an hour at most.
Tony told me the job was complicated because my car had bad chassis damage
After 9 months with Tony I switched the job to Brett who was immediately able to tell me the chassis was undamaged and the parts I had bought to complete the job were almost compete. Infact within a week he has been able to reconstruct most of the car..
So for the past three weeks I have asked Tony for my money back but each time he says “tomorrow - i need to work out how much the job owes me” Eventually I say enough is enough, you are sodding me about . Within 5 mins he was on my doorstep threatening to kill me, beat me up, and smash my other car up (the one I was forced to buy eventually when it became obvious I as getting swindled. - and by then desperate for transport.) Needless to say this F2F resulted in nothing more than a shouting match, purposely constructed by Tony to intimidate me and obfuscate the issue!
So it seems my options are limited. The other party is aggressive, obnoxious and potentially violent.. No sort of mediation would be viable under these circumstances.
So I guess my question is - what am I getting myself into? Presumably Small Court Claim combined with a Trading standards complaint. This is all new to me. I’ve never in my life been in such a position
Any advice please?
A very good friend recommended a “very good friend” as contractor for the repairs Lets call him Tony.” After several F2F meetings with Tony we agreed on a quote (written down) but he needed £1000 up front to get the process going. Which I assumed was usual practice
During the NINE MONTHS possession the only “work” he did was cut off the bumper with a grinder, and detach a wing . My current mechanic (Brett) says this would have taken an hour at most.
Tony told me the job was complicated because my car had bad chassis damage
After 9 months with Tony I switched the job to Brett who was immediately able to tell me the chassis was undamaged and the parts I had bought to complete the job were almost compete. Infact within a week he has been able to reconstruct most of the car..
So for the past three weeks I have asked Tony for my money back but each time he says “tomorrow - i need to work out how much the job owes me” Eventually I say enough is enough, you are sodding me about . Within 5 mins he was on my doorstep threatening to kill me, beat me up, and smash my other car up (the one I was forced to buy eventually when it became obvious I as getting swindled. - and by then desperate for transport.) Needless to say this F2F resulted in nothing more than a shouting match, purposely constructed by Tony to intimidate me and obfuscate the issue!
So it seems my options are limited. The other party is aggressive, obnoxious and potentially violent.. No sort of mediation would be viable under these circumstances.
So I guess my question is - what am I getting myself into? Presumably Small Court Claim combined with a Trading standards complaint. This is all new to me. I’ve never in my life been in such a position
Any advice please?
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Do you have evidence of paying £1000 to 'Tony'? If not you won't get far if he denies receiving it.0
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Unfortunately, I think Ed has it. Tony is simply going to claim he never had any money off you. Prove otherwise... Trading Standards certainly don't have the time or manpower to get involved.
By all means you can launch a small claim - at the very least, a letter before action - but I really wouldn't hold your breath. And by the sound of his visit to you, he wouldn't be averse to taking it personally.0 -
First thing I would do is report his aggression and threats to the police. Did you have a witness to this altercation?
Did you have a witness to handing over the cash?
I would raise a court action. You can DIY, it is not difficult. Hopefully you might get some of your money back."A nation's greatness is measured by how it treats its weakest members." ~ Mahatma Gandhi
Ride hard or stay home :iloveyou:0 -
I would call the police for harmful threats and theft
then maybe he will give you your money back.
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I can't see it in the OP ... how was the £1000 originally paid? Cash? Bank transfer?
The former gives no proof you gave "Tony" anything - the latter does.0 -
Sorry for the late reply - i didnt get any notifications. Yes I have a receipt for the £1000. No witnesses. I’m an ex policeman so know it’s pointless to report to the police, I’ll be pursuing a claim through small claims. Thanks for all the advice. I have since put a camera up in case of future altercations.0
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Ask your very good friend why his very good friend is being a !!!!......and is this normal behavior..0
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My friend is very embarrassed about it, he got no hint of this behaviour before. I did ask him to intervene to no avail.0
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