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jodril
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Hi,
I was married briefly in 1994 and separated in 1997, my then wife moved abroad and I haven't seen or heard from her since
I am looking to get married again and would suspect I need to get that marriage annulled / divorced
I was a little shocked to discover there is a £550 court fee. Is there any way around this fee other than claiming hardship?
I was married briefly in 1994 and separated in 1997, my then wife moved abroad and I haven't seen or heard from her since
I am looking to get married again and would suspect I need to get that marriage annulled / divorced
I was a little shocked to discover there is a £550 court fee. Is there any way around this fee other than claiming hardship?
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Hi,
I was married briefly in 1994 and separated in 1997, my then wife moved abroad and I haven't seen or heard from her since
I am looking to get married again and would suspect I need to get that marriage annulled / divorced
I was a little shocked to discover there is a £550 court fee. Is there any way around this fee other than claiming hardship?
Unless you want to break the law and commit bigamy. It carries a sentence of up to seven years.
Re the fees - it's not a case of 'claiming hardship'.
You can get help with fees if you are on certain benefits or on a low income.
Details here:
https://www.gov.uk/divorce/file-for-divorce
You might wish to note the information on that link which says:How to apply
To apply for a divorce you’ll need:- your husband or wife’s full name and address
- your original marriage certificate or a certified copy (and a certified translation if it’s not in English)
- proof of your name change if you’ve changed it since you got married - for example your marriage certificate or a deed poll
The above assumes you are in England or Wales.0 -
She is not your ‘then wife’, she remains your wife as you are not divorced. Really can’t imagine why you say that you ‘suspect’ you may need to divorce or get it annulled! Come on!
I endorse all of Pollycat’s good advice and useful links.0 -
Married again,whats the advantages.0
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you've also got 10k ( see your other post ) in euros so I don't know whether the hardship claim adds up0
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Hi,
I was married briefly in 1994 and separated in 1997, my then wife moved abroad and I haven't seen or heard from her since
I am looking to get married again and would suspect I need to get that marriage annulled / divorced
I was a little shocked to discover there is a £550 court fee. Is there any way around this fee other than claiming hardship?
I really hope you have no significant assets otherwise it could end up costing you a lot more than £550!
Divorce isn't free and I don't know why you feel it should be. Just pay the fee and get the ball rolling.0 -
You won't be ableto get the marriage anulled, you will need to be divorced.
You will ned your wife's contact detials - it is possible to get a divorce without them but you will ned to satisfy the cout that you have taken all reasonable steps both to locate her and o bring the proceedings to her attention - this can includethings such as writing to her care of any relatives whose addresses you know, and to any e-nail addresses you have for her, searching for her (check facebook, linked in etc to see if you can find any trace of her) and potentiallydoing things such as taking out ds in the local paper of the area she is likely to be living in / was last heard of.
Is your wife a UK citizen?All posts are my personal opinion, not formal advice Always get proper, professional advice (particularly about anything legal!)0 -
I'm not planning on claiming hardship. Financially I can cover the costs but I just think £550 is a bit steep. I was looking for advice on saving some money (this is the money saving website, right?)
She is german and I cannot find her anywhere under my name or her maiden name. I haven't seen her for over 22 years.
I am hoping she has divorced without my consent so I will need to check with the court here or Germany (is it covered by EU law?)0 -
I'm not planning on claiming hardship. Financially I can cover the costs but I just think £550 is a bit steep. I was looking for advice on saving some money (this is the money saving website, right?)
She is german and I cannot find her anywhere under my name or her maiden name. I haven't seen her for over 22 years.
I am hoping she has divorced without my consent so I will need to check with the court here or Germany (is it covered by EU law?)
Er... well... you did ask about 'claiming hardship'.
Didn't you?
It really doesn't matter if you think £550 fee is 'a bit steep'.
It is the fee.
You are right...it is the 'money saving website.
But it's not the 'magic money fairy, everything is free' website.
Oh - and don't get sucked in by those adverts from companies such as these who offer what might seem - on face value - cheaper options:
https://www.divorce-online.co.uk/divorce-services/diy-divorce-services/diy-divorce/
https://www.quickie-divorce.com/?gclid=CjwKCAjwusrtBRBmEiwAGBPgE9O118d5rhy6zcf75Au%20%20VeMcKmByzIjqf2PxV_5hgMTOSlX29mrazZBoC_wEQAvD_BwE
As this thread says:
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/comment/76436684#Comment_76436684
the headline price these companies offer are in addition to the £550 court fees.
It seems you need to do some more work on finding your wife.0 -
I'm not planning on claiming hardship. Financially I can cover the costs but I just think £550 is a bit steep. I was looking for advice on saving some money (this is the money saving website, right?)
She is german and I cannot find her anywhere under my name or her maiden name. I haven't seen her for over 22 years.
I am hoping she has divorced without my consent so I will need to check with the court here or Germany (is it covered by EU law?)
I didn't really ask a question but I'll do so now. Do you have any real assets to speak of, savings, property, pensions?0 -
If you can find her yourself you will be able to save a lot of money, you married her so you must have links to her, did you marry here or Germany
You can easily get a copy of the wedding documents here and I’m sure in Germany that info is going to be available too, try social media’s send her family letters etc
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