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Power of Attorney

I've been asked to be a POA for my mother-in-law, I don't have a problem with this, however my MIL insisted we go to her building society to enquire about this.

The guy there said it would be no problem but did I understand the "tax" implications on myself ( which I did not ! ).

As I'm self employed income and tax is already a minefield for me and I'd don't really need added complications of this.

I said to the guy I didn’t think this was right ( now can someone else’s income & wealth have an impact on my finances ) however he was adamant it would.

Is he right?
I couldn’t find anything on the HMRC website that corroborated his information.
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  • Browntoa
    Browntoa Posts: 49,620 Forumite
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    edited 25 October 2019 at 9:34AM
    It's nonsense

    Power of attorney just allows you to manage your mother in law finances , health , or both.

    Has absolutely no impact on you

    You can do the forms online yourself

    https://www.gov.uk/power-of-attorney
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  • DE_612183
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    Browntoa wrote: »
    It's nonsense

    Power of attorney just allows you to manage your mother in law finances , health , or both.

    Has absolutely no impact on you

    You can do the forms online yourself



    Thats what I thought - he was so adamant and that they "do it all the time"
  • Malthusian
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    Next time you or your MIL need tax or legal advice, ask a registered solicitor or IFA, not checkout staff.

    Have you done your own POA?
  • DE_612183
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    Malthusian wrote: »
    Next time you or your MIL need tax or legal advice, ask a registered solicitor or IFA, not checkout staff.

    Have you done your own POA?

    I wanted to go to a solicitor - she wanted to go to the building society - i think her thought process was " that's where my money so they need to know about it"

    I think she would prefer a solicitor to do it.

    So will go down that route.
  • They would find out about it when you walk in with a registered POA and your ID. I'm the interim they are talking out their bum!

    Get a solicitor to draw it up and register it or do it yourself.

    Only tax implications would be if your MIL is doing self-assessment, you would do them on her behalf as attorney or have an accountant do it on your behalf as her attorney and it's paid out of her money.
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  • bouicca21
    bouicca21 Posts: 6,765 Forumite
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    Did mine myself. It’s really easy as long as you concentrate on filling the forms out correctly.
  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 36,190 Forumite
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    The guy in the Building Society needs a lesson on not talking out if his a**e.

    I'd be disinclined to let a company who allows such people in a customer facing role to have my money.
  • ariba10
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    edited 25 October 2019 at 6:12PM
    Just had mine and the other half’s done.

    Had confirming letter today.

    Not difficult

    (or expensive, unless you use a Solicitor )
    I used to be indecisive but now I am not sure.
  • Robin9
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    The guy in the Building Society needs training - write to their HQ
    Never pay on an estimated bill. Always read and understand your bill
  • Mojisola
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    Dave46049 wrote: »
    I've been asked to be a POA for my mother-in-law

    It's better to have at least two people as POA in case one can't take on the role when the time comes or, at least, name someone else as a replacement if the first attorney can't do it.
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