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Advice on being harassed for extra money

Secondwifeblues · 2019-10-05 04:43:00

I have been with my husband for 11 years. Married for 7. His ex wife has made our lives very difficult and not a week goes by without some drama. In all his time my H has paid maintance. If not the CSA recommend payment, at many times, more. For many years I earned more money and so subsidized these extras. My H has been…

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MoneysavingmadGem Posts: 219 Forumite

1 November 2019 at 10:50PM

"She'll get less money if you pay the CSA directly by the way as there's a fee, so it's in her best interests to play ball."

Resident parent pays something like 4% but there's a bigger collection fee added to non resident parent think it was 20% when we looked into it.

Not a great option for nrp!

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