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Housemate refuses to Pay Bills
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When somebody of Facebook sold my son a non-existant festival ticket to the tune of a couple of hundred pounds and then blocked my son when he complained, I hunted for him online. He had an unusual spelling of his christian name which led me to his father's address.
I wrote a letter before action and my son received a cheque for the full amount by return of post."If you think it's expensive to hire a professional to do the job, wait until you hire an amateur." -- Red Adair0 -
When somebody of Facebook sold my son a non-existant festival ticket to the tune of a couple of hundred pounds and then blocked my son when he complained, I hunted for him online. He had an unusual spelling of his christian name which led me to his father's address.
I wrote a letter before action and my son received a cheque for the full amount by return of post.
That's greatI mean a cheque for £100 vs a fraud conviction; bargain of the century.
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Who is the 'lead tenant'? Who will the landlord return the deposit to?
If it is you, you simply deduct her share of the bills from her share of the deposit.
However if the LL divides up the deposit between you or reirns it to her, that won't help.0 -
And move gas/leccy to someone that does not charge a standing daily charge if you can.“Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?”
Juvenal, The Sixteen Satires0 -
Agreed, my sister is a pain and likes to avoid paying for things.
As soon as my parents find out they force her to pay everything.0 -
Speak to your University housing department for advice; I'm afraid this is quite common.They are an EYESORES!!!!0
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Not a guarantor to the OP, just to the landlord.
The parents are either going to feel somewhat responsible or they will be annoyed their child is acting in such a way and will force/pay themselves.
Not something you would perhaps do buy equally it has worked with ,e0 -
Out,_Vile_Jelly wrote: »Speak to your University housing department for advice; I'm afraid this is quite common.
Nothing they can do or care about - espically at this time of year.0 -
How would that help?Or they will just tell you to Jog On, if they're selfish, what do you think the likelihood the parents would be?
Bottom line is, there is nothing to lose by contacting the parents.0 -
I would recommend caution with the 'contact the parents' approach.
A similar situation happened whereby a housemate of mine had a house party when the rest of us were all away for a weekend. We returned to a trashed house, and a radiator had been ripped from the wall. At checkout time the landlord removed the cost of replacing the radiator from our deposit. I returned her deposit to her, sans said cost, which sparked an argument that she shouldn't pay for it as we can't prove it didn't happen for unrelated reasons to her party. I ended up on the receiving end of multiple aggressive phone calls from her father who became increasingly threatening and violent. I am convinced that had he not lived in Ireland at the time I would have had him knocking down my door for the sake of a couple of hundred pounds' deposit money.
The point is, be careful as you don't know how her parents are going to react!
@OP, what are the sums involved here? Unfortunately it is going to prove difficult to reclaim your money whichever route you take, so I would cut my losses unless it was a very large sum of money owed.0
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