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Cheques in married name

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We are getting married next week and have been asked what name we would like cheques to be made out to as gifts. We do not have a joint account and don’t see the need for one so if they are made out to Mr and Mrs xxx, presumably they would only be able to go into the account of the person with the surname on the cheque? Can’t find much info on the bank websites.
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  • Zanderman
    Zanderman Posts: 4,871 Forumite
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    I wouldn't try and pay a cheque to two people into an account that's only for one. And I'd be surprised if a bank would let you. It is clearly a contradiction of the cheque-writer's instruction technically-speaking.

    Re not seeing a need for a joint account - isn't this exactly that? A need for one.

    No need to rush to open it before the wedding though, the cheques will keep.
  • DCFC79
    DCFC79 Posts: 40,641 Forumite
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    edited 17 August 2019 at 8:11AM
    Why not open an account, get the cheques paid in and withdraw the funds then close it.
  • adonis10
    adonis10 Posts: 1,810 Forumite
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    DCFC79 wrote: »
    Why not open an account, get the cheques paid in and withdraw the funds then close it.

    That’s what I think we will do if there is no other way around it.
  • SPOWER
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    edited 17 August 2019 at 12:00PM
    Who has a cheque book?

    Some old pensioner with Girobank?

    Focus on your wedding, not gifts.
  • IanManc
    IanManc Posts: 2,441 Forumite
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    SPOWER wrote: »
    Who has a cheque book?

    Some old pensioner with Girobank?

    Focus on your wedding, not gifts.

    Your contempt for old people is nasty and reflects on you, not them.

    According to the most recent annual figures, for 2017, more than 400 million cheques are still issued each year in the UK, so it would seem quite a lot of people still have cheque books.

    And Girobank ceased to exist in 2003.

    Have a lovely day. :)
  • Carrot007
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    DCFC79 wrote: »
    Why not open an account, get the cheques paid in and withdraw the funds then close it.


    Would it not save time and a lot of bother to ask for cheque's in one persons name? (or cash, or bank transfer, or mushrooms).
  • lindsaygalaxy
    lindsaygalaxy Posts: 2,067 Forumite
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    We have recently got married and received some cheques in both our names. You cannot pay them in to an individual account. We changed my name on an account I didn't use much and added my husband on (after the wedding so I could also take in the marriage certificate). We now have our own accounts and a joint one.
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  • adonis10
    adonis10 Posts: 1,810 Forumite
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    SPOWER wrote: »
    Who has a cheque book?

    Some old pensioner with Girobank?

    Focus on your wedding, not gifts.

    Most people with a bank account have cheque books, I imagine. Often safer than cash, you know.

    I am focusing on the wedding. If you’d read the OP, we have been ASKED by family members who to make a cheque to, therefore they are clearly intending to give a financial gift in the form of a cheque.
  • adonis10
    adonis10 Posts: 1,810 Forumite
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    Carrot007 wrote: »
    Would it not save time and a lot of bother to ask for cheque's in one persons name? (or cash, or bank transfer, or mushrooms).

    Yes but we can only control those who have asked. Others may give a cheque but will just address to it one or both of us.
  • Ask them to leave the payable to name as blank so you can fill it in yourself?

    Or just get a joint account?

    If you’re married you should be sharing commitments anyway
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