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Found guilty but no reparations!

Tiggi126
Posts: 4 Newbie
Please can anyone help/advise. A younger niece 29, came to stay with mum and I. We are 87 and 67 years old. A year ago we discovered that she had stolen every penny we had and more besides by obtaining 2 overdrafts on our joint account. Total taken £16,500 leaving two disabled ladies broke and £5000 in debt. Funeral expenses all gone. What can two oaps do in cases like this.
In March she pleaded guilty to 4 counts of fraud. The police had asked for reparations to be made. The court didn’t mention the money to be repaid.
We are still struggling with the debt. How can we recover some if not all of our money?
In March she pleaded guilty to 4 counts of fraud. The police had asked for reparations to be made. The court didn’t mention the money to be repaid.
We are still struggling with the debt. How can we recover some if not all of our money?
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You need proper, professional legal advice for this sad situation. Unfortunately this falls well outside the scope of this forum.0
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You might want to contact the court and check that an application was actually made, and if it was to confirm that it wasn't granted, but much would depend on her circumstances.
In reality - even if the court did make a compensation order, if she has spent what she took and has no money to pay then little or nothing will get recovered.
Might be worth considering if the bank was negligent in allowing her to carry out the fraud, you could try going through their complaints process..... that would probably depend on what she actually did and how.0 -
Citizens Advice should point you in the right directions .0
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What have your niece's parents said about their daughter's behaviour? I would have thought they would have offered you some help.The comments I post are my personal opinion. While I try to check everything is correct before posting, I can and do make mistakes, so always try to check official information sources before relying on my posts.0
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They have offered nothing.
Thank you all for your suggestions xx0 -
Many solicitors do a free half hour. Look on this link to see if there is one near you https://www.lawworks.org.uk/legal-advice-individuals/find-legal-advice-clinic-near-you0
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+1 for contacting your bank depending how she applied for the overdrafts etc0
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couriervanman wrote: »+1 for contacting your bank depending how she applied for the overdrafts etc0
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Aye if she has been convicted of fraud then the bank should pretty much automatically write the debts off if they approved the applications.
Unlikely with the person carrying out the fraud living with the victim, where they could easily obtain access to all the info required to carry out the fraud.0
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