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Neighbour trying to claim our land as his own

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  • Kellyg619
    Kellyg619 Posts: 8 Forumite
    I’m just going by citizens advice, but I have found that I have free 30 mins legal advice in my union, and they are calling me Monday- I’ll let you know ��
  • naf123
    naf123 Posts: 1,708 Forumite
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    If legals say it's ok to dispose - probably better that way (get it in writing !) As if you move it back on his land he probably will just move it back again .
  • stator
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    Get CCTV installed ASAP. A decent AHD system
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  • sevenhills
    sevenhills Posts: 5,938 Forumite
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    edited 4 April 2019 at 7:09PM
    Do not forget that even though land issues are a civil - not criminal - matter, that if you feel threatened or believe there may be a breach of the peace you should call the police.


    I have known the police call at someones home after a fallout on facebook; if you ask them in the correct way, they will turnout.
  • PasturesNew
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    When the fence went up they had the cheek to request they got the “nice” side.
    That is the norm. The owner gets to look at the post/horrible side; the neighbour gets "the nice side".
  • Davesnave
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    That is the norm. The owner gets to look at the post/horrible side; the neighbour gets "the nice side".


    Pastures, I'm shocked at your blatant display of fencism!

    Both sides of a fence are beautiful in their own way ;), but you're right about the convention of having the posts on the land-owner's side. (And they're handy for fixing training wires and similar things to.)
  • -taff
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    Really? I've always put the nice side facing me, and so have my neighbours....put the nice side facing them.
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  • Davesnave
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    -taff wrote: »
    Really? I've always put the nice side facing me, and so have my neighbours....put the nice side facing them.
    It's a convention with some sense to it, but there are plenty of unconventional people around.

    One could also argue that with a picket or featheredge fence, putting the smooth side facing the neighbour means walking on their land to hammer the nails in.
  • FreeBear
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    Davesnave wrote: »
    putting the smooth side facing the neighbour means walking on their land to hammer the nails in.


    With Easter coming up, I can live with that. :D
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  • Ms_Chocaholic
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    Kellyg619 wrote: »
    Mike the boilerman - It is my belief that there never was an agreement or any money changing hands. He has lied about a number of issues in the past, and I believe this is another.

    Loveka- It’s good to know about adverse possession only viable if he has never been challenged.

    I managed to block myself out of my account so sorry for not keeping you updated.

    I wrote, what I felt was a diplomatic letter requesting that the items be removed no later than Easter Monday, and reminded him on the terms of the contract. I’m sure he didn’t even read it- he ripped it up and started shouting abuse at me, saying it’s his land now, he won’t be moving anything, and I should go back to where I came from (not sure what he means by that) amongst other things. I am going to start to keep a log of this verbal abuse.

    I have an appointment Monday for legal advice although hope to get in touch with citizens advice beforehand.




    Just picking up on what the neighbour said to you - could this be racism?
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