Gifted Deposit - Close Friends

Myself and partner could be in a position to buy but only thanks to an £11K gift from a very close friend. Neither of us have parents who would be able to assist like this. We do also have approx £4K in a couple of HTB ISA, and also have a further 6 months worth of saving where we think we could save up a further £4-5K.

I’ve now had a look online - firstly at the ‘Which’ site which seems to indicate that a gift of money from friends is frowned upon and may stop us getting a mortgage. Does anyone have an experience similar to this, or that could advise?

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  • Verix
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    It's certainly unusual and plenty of lenders won't accept it, however there are lenders who can allow this as a source of deposit.
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  • Bugalugs
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    Verix wrote: »
    It's certainly unusual and plenty of lenders won't accept it, however there are lenders who can allow this as a source of deposit.

    Thank you, we are going to be living with friends for the next 6 months or so, to allow a final ‘push’ on saving - and recognise that we’re very fortunate in this respect too. Bearing in mind there will be a bank account with the money in, plus our savings, how does the mortgage provider ‘see’ where it came from?
  • Sea_Shell
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    Is this truly truly a gift, without a single string attached, or implied?

    I'd be very wary as there's very rarely a "free lunch" in life.

    I wouldn't want to feel indebted to my best friend, even if they swore blind it was a gift.

    Call me and old synic, but...
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  • Bugalugs
    Bugalugs Posts: 119 Forumite
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    Verix wrote: »
    It's certainly unusual and plenty of lenders won't accept it, however there are lenders who can allow this as a source of deposit.
    Sea_Shell wrote: »
    Is this truly truly a gift, without a single string attached, or implied?

    I'd be very wary as there's very rarely a "free lunch" in life.

    I wouldn't want to feel indebted to my best friend, even if they swore blind it was a gift.

    Call me and old synic, but...

    Totally understand your cynicism, but this is someone that’s like family and is just in a much better financial situation than us.
  • Verix
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    Bugalugs wrote: »
    Bearing in mind there will be a bank account with the money in, plus our savings, how does the mortgage provider ‘see’ where it came from?

    A mortgage adviser would ask for evidence of the deposit funds, You would provide your bank statement with £11,000 deposited in to it, they would then ask for evidence of where that money came from, which would likely mean getting a copy of your friends bank statement. They would be required to sign at least one letter confirming the money is a gift and not a loan, and that they would have no rights to the property at all.

    Solicitors will also want to satisfy themselves that the source of deposit is acceptable.

    Good luck with it.
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  • ACG
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    As verix said, it can be done but your choice of lenders will be limited, but should be normal rates.
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  • Bugalugs
    Bugalugs Posts: 119 Forumite
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    Thanks so much for the advice everyone!
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