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sourcrates

Emmalene wrote: »

I’m trying my best and family know about my wage drop it’s just difficult

I’ve moved to my partners mums moved jobs taken a pay cut I hate everything about it

I’m hoping to get another job just not sure yet

I wish you luck with the job search, but failing that, you cannot rely on family handouts forever, especially to the tune of £500 a month, that is a lot of money.


Debt solutions are there for a purpose, to be used by people that need them, instead of just wasting your family's money on your debts, you can sort out this mess in a single afternoon by either going into a debt management plan, or obtaining a debt relief order, or by agreeing different terms with your creditors.


Borrowing money from any source to pay your debt shortfall is just not the right way to go about things, i know it can be difficult to see the wood from the trees, but until you have your "light-bulb" moment, i fear all this will fall on deaf ears.


I wish you well with it all, and a merry Christmas to you.

JCS1

Emmalene wrote: »

Your heartless have some respect

People are not being heartless or disrespectful. They are giving you good advice based on their own experiences.

But until you have your light bulb moment, it is pointless as you will not accept the advice you are being given.

And it's "You're" not "Your".

Emmalene

Oh shut up I’m trying my bloody best

JCS1

Emmalene wrote: »

Oh shut up I’m trying my bloody best

People are trying to help you, and you are being abusive in return.

If you were serious about sorting out your debts , you would get rid of the £100 a month mobile, and the £50 a month nails. That would be £1,800 a year to put to your debts.

NinaSwiss

Emmalene wrote: »

Oh shut up I’m trying my bloody best

OP - honest question. What were you hoping to achieve by starting this thread?

FestiveJoy

Emmalene wrote: »

Oh shut up I’m trying my bloody best

OK. Received loud and clear.

Plenty of others here who will appreciate our help

:xmassign:

fatbelly

Thanks for your pm, emmalene.

I will post here re your options but it's all a bit frantic at the moment.

Emmalene

Just pm me back

Emmalene

These are the only luxuries I have and I’m keeping them

sourcrates

fatbelly wrote: »

Thanks for your pm, emmalene.

I will post here re your options but it's all a bit frantic at the moment.

Agreed, lets just calm it all down a bit and think back to how long it took some of us to see the light, and its Christmas too........:grouphug:


so be exceptionally nice to one another.......:kisses: