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First Time Buyer. So confused
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Re house vs flat - what do you prefer? Are you sensitive to noise? Do you like gardening? Would you rather be closer to the city centre?0
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Detached, freehold house with off road parking and garden, all off an adopted quiet road close to excellent schools and amenities will do for me thanks0
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LydiaTheKind wrote: »I'm in a similar situation to you - isn't buying for the first time daunting?!
I'd advise going to speak to a mortgage advisor. I did this recently and found it very useful - I'm an NHS worker and have some very confusing payslips. From what I understand, if your wage fluctuates from month to month then they will ask for 3 months worth of wages, and will take into account any earnings from a second job as long as you receive a payslip from them every month. She made everything very clear about costings etc.
In terms of house vs flat - personally, I'd prefer a house. Less neighbours to worry about, more space etc. Saying that, I'd rather have a flat which I can afford without having to rely on lodgers, rather than a house where I'd rely on lodgers and stress about filling the spare room.ReadingTim wrote: »Speak to this lot and get a realistic idea of what someone will actually lend you before wasting any more time on idle speculation and crystal ball gazing.
Without a realistic idea of budget, you're basically playing the property equivalent of fantasy football....Detached, freehold house with off road parking and garden, all off an adopted quiet road close to excellent schools and amenities will do for me thanks0 -
yeah, flat is good but still if you get a place for gardening.children gets a place to play it is really preferable.I will really enjoy it.0
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