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OceanSound wrote: »0
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rooting for the underdog - something we use to be renowned for.0
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OceanSound wrote: »rooting for the underdog - something we use to be renowned for.
Whereas I happen to think that posting factual and hopefully useful information about how things really are, rather than 'taking sides' or just moaning about how unfair everything is, etc, is a more constructive approach.
I'm not referring to anything or anyone in this thread in saying that by the way, just commenting on different styles of posting in a more general sense....0 -
Each to their own I suppose, but if I was looking for a forum where other posters would simply reinforce my prejudices and put metaphorical arms around my shoulders in a "go you, sock it to The Man" sort of way, then I'd head for Mumsnet or the like.
Whereas I happen to think that posting factual and hopefully useful information about how things really are, rather than 'taking sides' or just moaning about how unfair everything is, etc, is a more constructive approach.
I'm not referring to anything or anyone in this thread in saying that by the way, just commenting on different styles of posting in a more general sense....
Perhaps those posters should leave their prejudices aside and start recommending Martin's new book on how to manage your finances. I believe it's gonna be part of the school curricular.
BTW, you are telling us you cannot speak for anyone else, but your reply is tinged with 'I'm speaking for most of us on this forum' .
Perhaps if posters put links to sources of the so called factual particulars, One would be less likely (I'm not referring to you in particular) to perceive that we are 'moaning about fairness'.
If you can suggest another forum that offers the same breadth and depth of info on finance, I'd be sure to visit them. I don't believe mumsnet is one of them.0 -
OceanSound wrote: »BTW, you are telling us you cannot speak for anyone else, but your reply is tinged with 'I'm speaking for most of us on this forum' .OceanSound wrote: »Perhaps if posters put links to sources of the so called factual particulars, One would be less likely (I'm not referring to you in particular) to perceive that we are 'moaning about fairness'.OceanSound wrote: »If you can suggest another forum that offers the same breadth and depth of info on finance, I'd be sure to visit them. I don't believe mumsnet is one of them.0
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...I do see many posters sharing plenty of useful information, albeit plenty of others who just want a good rant....
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=5925529&utm_source=MSE_FS&utm_medium=Email&utm_term=13-Nov-18#2
It's neither useful nor a rant.... if you want information then this is a great forum for that, but if you're looking for sympathy then there are others more geared to that style.
You don't have to hold a door open for anyone coming behind you. You don't have to let in traffic from side street joining a main road. Yet we do it all the time.
Doing so means you are decent. You are civilized.0 -
OceanSound wrote: »Have a look at this:
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=5925529&utm_source=MSE_FS&utm_medium=Email&utm_term=13-Nov-18#2
It's neither useful nor a rant.
simple manners and politeness doesn't cost anything. Rudeness does..
You don't have to hold a door open for anyone coming behind you. You don't have to let in traffic from side street joining a main road. Yet we do it all the time.
Doing so means you are decent. You are civilized.
I note that you've made no attempt to address my question regarding substantiating your allegation about posters being both planted and rewarded by financial institutions....0
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