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Cohabiting separation financial advise

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  • We also have 2 children. One who is 14 , has disabilities
  • pphillips
    pphillips Posts: 1,635 Forumite
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    GoldeH1977 wrote: »
    I also have 2 children with him. One which is 14 & has disabilities.
    We are not amicable & he did not attend mediation which I arranged.

    Who do the children live with?
  • dawyldthing
    dawyldthing Posts: 3,438 Forumite
    If it was paid off before you lived together I believe it’s a different kettle of fish. I think he has to pay maintenance until they are out of full time education, but it can take a while
    :T:T :beer: :beer::beer::beer: to the lil one :) :beer::beer::beer:
  • It was purchased cash for me on my birthday
  • Kids live with me
  • pphillips
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    GoldeH1977 wrote: »
    Kids live with me

    Make sure you get him to pay child support and contact the CSA if he refuses.
  • neneromanova
    neneromanova Posts: 3,051 Forumite
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    GoldeH1977 wrote: »
    It was purchased cash for me on my birthday


    So the house was bought for you but put in his name?!
    What's yours is mine and what's mine is mine..
  • Yes that's correct..... ??
  • clairec79
    clairec79 Posts: 2,512 Forumite
    GoldeH1977 wrote: »
    I forgot to.say we were engaged & he's never called that off.


    Seriously? The relationship has ended but you are arguing the semantics that he never called off the engagement
  • GoldeH1977 wrote: »
    Yes that's correct..... ??
    You really need to see a solicitor who will be able to go through all of your circumstances at once and form a complete picture, rather than you dripping odd bits of information.

    No-one here can tell you anything with the way you are presenting information.
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