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What happened to post? where did it go?

I have been thinking of a post all day.
It was by Erskine or Erpskip.
She was the lady thinking of giving up her 2 year old because she had money issues.But alot of us though it really was PND though she wouldn't admit to it.I have been told the post was removed.Does anyone know why? I really wanted to make sure she was ok.

Can anyone fill me in with anymore details please?
lost my way but now I'm back ! roll on 2013
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  • D&DD
    D&DD Posts: 4,405 Forumite
    Thin I saw it was transferred to debtfreewannabee last night??
  • rachnbri
    rachnbri Posts: 953 Forumite
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    It would appear that it has indeed been removed. Not sure why? I know that in her post on DFW she had asked that no-one else posted.

    Lets hope that she was having a really really bad night and has since thought better of it and wanted to remove all traces that she'd considered leaving her baby.

    If not then I hope she can take some of the advice she was offered on board and seek out the support that's available to help her deal with her situation.
  • Mollymop5
    Mollymop5 Posts: 2,095 Forumite
    yes it was but now it's been removed.I was wondering if I'd missed something at bedtime but a reply on the other board says she asked people to stp posting so may have asked to have posts removed.It's a shame when alot of people on here care so much.Oh well nothing I can do I suppose :(
    lost my way but now I'm back ! roll on 2013
    spc member 72

  • dmg24
    dmg24 Posts: 33,920 Forumite
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    I thought it was Erskine too, but I can't find it on the Members List?
    Gone ... or have I?
  • Mollymop5
    Mollymop5 Posts: 2,095 Forumite
    It was Erpskip.I'd wrote name down last night and just found it.I searched but no member of this name.I think she's just disappeared.
    Let's just hope it was a bad night for her and things are looking better today.
    lost my way but now I'm back ! roll on 2013
    spc member 72

  • Jada
    Jada Posts: 43 Forumite
    I think she didn't want to discuss it anymore and asked for no more posts. Everyone was being lovely and trying to help her though. Was really nice that no one had given up on her, but I guess it was probably all too much and she asked for them both to be removed.

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  • Zara33
    Zara33 Posts: 5,441 Forumite
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    I'm sure i read a post, where someone had reported some of the posts to abuse :confused:
    Hit the snitch button!
    member #1 of the official warning clique.
    :D:j:D
    Feel the love baby!
  • ampersand
    ampersand Posts: 9,693 Forumite
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    Jada wrote: »
    I think she didn't want to discuss it anymore and asked for no more posts. Everyone was being lovely and trying to help her though. Was really nice that no one had given up on her, but I guess it was probably all too much and she asked for them both to be removed.

    :staradmin Jada :staradmin
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    I pm'd , too, but no acknowledgment.
    May those who were so unhelpful NEVER find themselves in such despair.
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  • ampersand
    ampersand Posts: 9,693 Forumite
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    Zara33 wrote: »
    I'm sure i read a post, where someone had reported some of the posts to abuse :confused:
    ###############
    Rightly so.
    CAP[UK]for FREE EXPERT DEBT &BUDGET HELP:
    01274 760721, freephone0800 328 0006
    'People don't want much. They want: "Someone to love, somewhere to live, somewhere to work and something to hope for."
    Norman Kirk, NZLP- Prime Minister, 1972
    ***JE SUIS CHARLIE***
    'It is difficult to free fools from the chains they revere' François-Marie AROUET


  • Zara33
    Zara33 Posts: 5,441 Forumite
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    ampersand wrote: »
    ###############
    Rightly so.

    I agree abuse should be dealt with but...for a whole thread to just disappear :confused: especially when several people took the time to write very lengthy, helpful posts must be so annoying.
    Hit the snitch button!
    member #1 of the official warning clique.
    :D:j:D
    Feel the love baby!
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