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Is she being Scammed?

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  • waamo
    waamo Posts: 10,298 Forumite
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    Opening a bank account for a foreign national you hardly know? What could possibly go wrong?
  • Senseicads
    Senseicads Posts: 207 Forumite
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    Thought my instincts on this were right...I might just point her at this thread to read you know.


    thanks everyone!
  • jonesMUFCforever
    jonesMUFCforever Posts: 28,898 Forumite
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    OP just try opening a bank account for a foreign national without a UK address to see how far you get.
  • EachPenny
    EachPenny Posts: 12,239 Forumite
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    Senseicads wrote: »
    Thought my instincts on this were right...I might just point her at this thread to read you know.

    Be aware that he may have already prepared her - that friends or family might be "anti" him because he is from the US and not local etc etc.

    If you tell her he might be a scammer be prepared for her to say something like "Why are you so against me having a boyfriend.... are you jealous?" etc. All part of the tricks to separate the victim from friends/family to remove their support network and to make the victim think the scammer is their only 'true' friend.

    You might get a negative response from the friend for raising the issue on the forum - even if there is no way we could identify who she is from your post. All you can do is to urge her to read what strangers on the internet are saying and perhaps most importantly this:-

    If you manage to stop her implicating herself in a crime then you will have been the best friend to her that it is possible to have. She may be angry with you today, but in time she will realise how close she came to making a very serious mistake.
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  • sheramber
    sheramber Posts: 23,062 Forumite
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    OP just try opening a bank account for a foreign national without a UK address to see how far you get.

    The account would be in the friend's name and with her address. No connection to a foreign national
  • waamo
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    sheramber wrote: »
    The account would be in the friend's name and with her address. No connection to a foreign national

    Does she like the taste of prison food? When it all gets messy she will be the one left carrying the can.
  • Armorica
    Armorica Posts: 869 Forumite
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    it feels dodgy.

    Point him towards a multi currency service like Citi or Revolut
  • mgdavid
    mgdavid Posts: 6,710 Forumite
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    your friend sounds really nice and wonderfully gullible - could you introduce me to her...?
    The questions that get the best answers are the questions that give most detail....
  • Paul_DNAP
    Paul_DNAP Posts: 751 Forumite
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    YES. It's a massive scam. She should block him and run for the hills.
    See if you can do a reverse image search on one or two of "his" photos, see which sportswear catalogue he's taken them from.
    (Although I could be wrong, I often am.)
  • anna42hmr
    anna42hmr Posts: 2,897 Forumite
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    edited 22 June 2018 at 8:23PM
    Hi, these seems to me as its either a romance scam in the making or talking her into opening a mule account, you may want to point her in the direction of the action fraud site,
    https://www.actionfraud.police.uk/fraud-az-money-muling https://www.actionfraud.police.uk/fraud_protection/dating_fraud

    as for the photos, try doing a google picture reverse as may be able to see if been pulled from another site. https://reverse.photos

    https://www.financialfraudaction.org.uk/consumer/advice/money-mule-scams/

    https://www.getsafeonline.org/protecting-yourself/money-muling1/
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