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By-passing the Executor
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I would agree, I think the solicitor is going to be needed as an impartial voice.:heartpuls Mrs Marleyboy :heartpuls
MSE: many of the benefits of a helpful family, without disadvantages like having to compete for the tv remoteProud Parents to an Aut-some son
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Thank you all for your replies.
There are 3 executors named - the solicitor, the daughter and the step-daughter.
The solicitor holds the original of the will (as he drew it up) and only a copy has been seen. The coroner is sending the Death Certificate to the step-daughter.
I have spoken to the natural daughter (my step-daughter) and suggested that she spoke to the solicitor to make sure that he was aware.
Am I correct in believing that the solicitor has to formally withdraw from being as executor or can the other executors just ignore him (apart from obtaining the original of the Will)?
I appreciate that next-of-kin has no legal basis in this matter, but I assumed that as a co-executor she has the right to approve (or otherwise) actions by the other executor(s)?
Thank you all again for all your contributions - they do help clarify the situation in my (independent) mind.
For reference - yes, the ex-wife is interested in her daughter being treated fairly and being allowed to act as executor in any relevant decision making.
Not quite sure what happens if the 2 executors disagree though...?
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They will come unstuck when completing the probate application form. Qustion 3.7 couldn't be more specific, "Name any executors who are NOT making this application with you, and explain why".
Followed by a pick list of 5 reasons, none of which include the words "we think it will be more cost effective to leave him/her out of the legal process"!
I wouldn't fancy their chances of probate being granted given that the original Will plus 3 copies must be sent as well. Someone is going to notice an executor is named in it who has been omitted from the form.
If he's included on the form somehow but not even advised of the death what will they do when the oath must be sworn, only 2 people when there should be 3 is impossible to conceal!
Of course, those are moot points as said solicitor has the original Will.Seen it all, done it all, can't remember most of it.0 -
Once again, thank you all for your contributions - I feel I know have a fairly clear picture in my mind of the legal connotations of the situation.
I think that the suggestion to retain the solicitor is best (but on a work done basis rather than % fee), both to act as an arbiter in case of disagreement and also to adhere to the stated wishes of the decedent that he acts as executor.
I am presuming that to ask the solicitor not to act as executor officially would require the agreement of both of the co-executors?
Thanks again for all your help - as stated in the beginning I fear that this will still end up as a massive family rift, but at least there would be some comfort to be had from knowing that the process was executed legally and correctly.
Cheers all again.0 -
Just as an update/conclusion...
All three executors are staying active to the conclusion. The step-daughter asked the solicitor to step down - they refused - and also the natural daughter - who (after speaking to the solicitor) also declined to reserve her Executor role.0 -
Hopefully they'll all try to work together. :beer:Seen it all, done it all, can't remember most of it.0
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Just as an update/conclusion...
All three executors are staying active to the conclusion. The step-daughter asked the solicitor to step down - they refused - and also the natural daughter - who (after speaking to the solicitor) also declined to reserve her Executor role.0
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