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Put away your purse & become debt-averse

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  • I like the sound of new coloured pencils,  I've put them on my wish list for Christmas,  I was addicted to highlight pens, but now think its more eco friendly to have pencils and not contribute to the mountain of plastic going to landfill.  I'm busy working my way through the pen pot using up all the free pens we have been given before buying any refills for my pens.   Seems like a small win, but keeps me happy.
  • Blackcats
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    Hello Foxgloves - I agree that it's easy to get the scale of spends wrong.  I find myself focussing on small spends and being more easy going with big spends which is, of course, very dangerous.  I've noticed that since we have been released from captivity there is a temptation to spend in coffee shops and eateries that obviously wasn't there during lockdown.  I went to the seaside one morning and had a breakfast that was delicious and worth every penny, however, I find it disconcerting spending £5/£6 on a tea and a coffee where previously I used to think this was absolutely fine. 
  • foxgloves
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    edited 29 August 2021 at 2:39PM
    @marionmgcars - Yes, I love coloured pencils. They were frequently on my Christmas wishlist as a child. My Mum was arty so she preferred buying us crafty stuff to whatever the latest craze toy was at the time.
    Smiled when I read about you using up free pens. I am doing the exact same with free pencils! When I took voluntary redundancy, I cleared out all my work supplies which included heaps of promotional pencils which were part of the freebies at community events. I don't like wasting things, so I offered them around several colleagues, none of whom wanted any as they had their own stash. So packaged them up to send back to the person whose job role involved co-ordinating all the promotional stuff but when I mentioned them, he said not to bother as he had plenty. The solution offered was if nobody else wanted them to chuck them. Well, I love pencils & no way could I just bin perfectly new unused ones, so I brought them home & have been using them for 10 years! Yes, a small win, as I don't expect 10 years of pencil purchases would have amounted to much, but it was more of the satisfaction of being able to shop them from home & not send a perfectly good bag of new pencils to landfill! Win-win!
    F x
    2025's challenges: 1) To fill our 10 Savings Pots to their healthiest level ever
    2) To read 100 books (36/100) 3) The Shrinking of Foxgloves 7.7kg/30kg

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  • foxgloves
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    @Blackcats - Yes, I think you & I are definitely both thinking along the same lines here re the small spends. Coffee shop expenditure is deducted from our Personal Spends. We have a Personal Spends allowance of £100 each per month. This might not sound like much, but it doesn't include clothes or things like concerts, opera, etc, which would instead be charged to our relevant Savings Pot. Like you, I have noticed that my Personal Spends tally is depleting more quickly now that we are no longer in Lockdown. As I am currently working on weight loss, I mostly (but not always) just have a coffee, but a coffee in town on a Saturday, then one on some or other outing on Sunday can be £5+ - there could be an additional visit during the week & it does add up over the month. I do like coffee shops, the social side of it, the little breather from shopping, the caffiene, etc, but I think it is important to maintain an awareness of the cumulative effects. That's one bonus of our Personal Spends spreadsheet......we can see exactly what we've been spending it on! I do always have some money left to carry forward to the next month (for instance £33 leftover this month), but it isn't as much as I had while we were less able to go out.
    F x
    2025's challenges: 1) To fill our 10 Savings Pots to their healthiest level ever
    2) To read 100 books (36/100) 3) The Shrinking of Foxgloves 7.7kg/30kg

    "Life can only be understood backwards but it must be lived forwards" (Soren Kirkegaard 1813-55)
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