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Dolly rocks on........

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  • Better on your own, Dolly. You go for it. I bet it won't take him long to realize what he's missing.

    Snowing just outside Glasgow at the moment and there was a heavy snowfall during the night. The police and Transport Minister are saying not to travel unless necessary so hopefully you'll get sent home sooner rather than later.
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • Absolutely, I wouldn't want to spend my life with someone who isn't 100% committed to me anyway.

    I'm just really sad because in my mind marriage is for life but obviously it doesn't mean the same to some people.

    He will miss out on more than I will for sure, I will go on to greater things.

    Dxxx
  • Getting away at 12 :T:T:T

    Fab, will be home watching a wee movie with my Mum by 2pm hopefully!

    Dxxx
  • So gonna be in a bit of debt again :(

    Got a 3 year service plan for my car and had to get £600 of repairs done, no emergency fund so had to go on the CC.

    Also have the car finance to pay off so got a settlement quote and can pay that and transfer all my balances over to my Barclaycard and just have the one payment to make each month.

    Going to sort that out next week then will sort out the payment plan from April 2018 to April 2019 then the saving can commence :j

    Dxxx
  • abba1772
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    Sounds like your ex is missing a sensitivity chip.........I ended my marriage was with him from 15 married at 18 left him at 27 but always was sensitive to his needs like if he wanted to talk on the phone or in person supported him for two years ended up as friends he met his new wife and boom he turned into a complete wa@&er hasn't seen his kids for five years which is down to him not me would never play with my kids like that but I'm still the bad one ......go figure xx you don't actually know anyone truly xx

    Chin up my lovely you're stronger than you realise but yes you are allowed to grieve your relationship xx
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  • Wow what a complete to$$er!!

    People can really shock you can't they.

    He is getting no emotional support or any other support from me at all, he has made his bed so he can lie in it.

    Dxxx
  • Good for you, Dolly. Focus on yourself for now. I'm sure someone who appreciates you will come along (if that's what you want).
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • Good for you, Dolly. Focus on yourself for now. I'm sure someone who appreciates you will come along (if that's what you want).
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
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    DR~~foccusing on you sounds good to me.

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  • It often seems that people come crawling back once they've realised what they've done, so it might do to be prepared for that as well. Sending you loads of hugs and good wishes xx
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