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Am I entitled to a refund in court?

I (apparently!) opened a standing order 9 years ago, although the bank cannot produce my original mandate as it was taken out more than 6 years ago.

The person receiving this SO worked for a diet company which went into administration 4 years ago, so, the service I was giving to was no longer able to supply that service to me anyway.

I realised the mistake in allowing this to go on undetected for so long and now wish to take her to the small claims court to get a refund.

Mediation did not work as she offered me compensation of ....9 years attending her NEW diet club for free!!!! No thank you...

I cannot remember ever signing a SO mandate, nor can I remember ever attending her class.

She says I did and that she has proof that I did, however I've never been shown any proof...

Where do I stand legally...any advice? I know that morally she is totally out of order, but you can't take someone to court on a moral issue..!!

Any advice? Would be most grateful...:mad:

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  • Geodark
    Geodark Posts: 1,049 Forumite
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    fionagil wrote: »
    I (apparently!) opened a standing order 9 years ago, although the bank cannot produce my original mandate as it was taken out more than 6 years ago.

    The person receiving this SO worked for a diet company which went into administration 4 years ago, so, the service I was giving to was no longer able to supply that service to me anyway.

    I realised the mistake in allowing this to go on undetected for so long and now wish to take her to the small claims court to get a refund.

    Mediation did not work as she offered me compensation of ....9 years attending her NEW diet club for free!!!! No thank you...

    I cannot remember ever signing a SO mandate, nor can I remember ever attending her class.

    She says I did and that she has proof that I did, however I've never been shown any proof...

    Where do I stand legally...any advice? I know that morally she is totally out of order, but you can't take someone to court on a moral issue..!!

    Any advice? Would be most grateful...:mad:

    But you must have given her your bank details at some point, otherwise how can she have been getting the money? 9 years an not noticed that SO was coming out of your account? I check my account online every day and know where every penny goes!
  • Mr.Generous
    Mr.Generous Posts: 4,017 Forumite
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    Do a letter before action asking for your money back, and requesting her proof of your DD, and if that fails a small claims court looks the best option.
    Mr Generous - Landlord for more than 10 years. Generous? - Possibly but sarcastic more likely.
  • DoaM
    DoaM Posts: 11,863 Forumite
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    If mediation has already taken place then does that mean you've already filed a claim?
  • sheramber
    sheramber Posts: 22,998 Forumite
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    Geodark wrote: »
    But you must have given her your bank details at some point, otherwise how can she have been getting the money? 9 years an not noticed that SO was coming out of your account? I check my account online every day and know where every penny goes!

    A SO is set up by the person sending the money, not the receiver. So the OP set up the standing order- not a DD- to pay her. She would just give the OP HER bank details for the SO to be sent to.
  • I did send her 2 emails, then delivered a letter to her expressing my intention to take her to the small claims court.

    We were then offered mediation, which has taken place.

    She had a solicitor talk to the mediator on her behalf and they offered me compensation in the form of 8 years free membership t her weekly exercise class!!! I duly declined and now intend to continue to court...
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