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Can I be forced to sell?

Cant believe I'm having to ask this but need to get my ducks in a row.

If my partner (we're not married) were to leave, would I be forced to sell the house?

I would remain in it with our 3 year old

I can afford the mortgage and all the bills on my own.

I'm guessing (well, hoping!) that a judge wouldn't force me to sell my sons home if I could afford it on my own?

Ideally I'd like to stay there and save up and give him what he's owed
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  • stator
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    Are you Joint Tenants or Tenants in Common ?
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  • chelseablue
    chelseablue Posts: 3,303 Forumite
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    stator wrote: »
    Are you Joint Tenants or Tenants in Common ?

    Tenants in Common
  • YHM
    YHM Posts: 650 Forumite
    If you can afford it on your own, why not just transfer the mortgage into your sole name?

    For a mortgage circa £225, I'd expect a need for 50k as income. Is this achievable?
    I am a Mortgage Broker.

    You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Broker, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice
  • chelseablue
    chelseablue Posts: 3,303 Forumite
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    YHM wrote: »
    If you can afford it on your own, why not just transfer the mortgage into your sole name?

    For a mortgage circa £225, I'd expect a need for 50k as income. Is this achievable?

    Mortgage outstanding today is £219,000.

    Income is £40,000

    Mortgage lender has advised the max I could borrow on my own is £190,000 so I would want to overpay as much as I can then when its down to that level I could remortgage in just my name
  • YHM
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    Does that income include any agreed maintenance / child benefit?
    I am a Mortgage Broker.

    You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Broker, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice
  • chelseablue
    chelseablue Posts: 3,303 Forumite
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    YHM wrote: »
    Does that income include any agreed maintenance / child benefit?

    Yes it does,

    My salary is £35,000 (not including yearly bonus)

    Child benefit is £1,066

    Child maintenance of £3,600

    Total £39,666

    My lender told me they would take child maintenance into account as long as they could see it going into the bank every month
  • YHM
    YHM Posts: 650 Forumite
    If you can add another party (friend, family member) to the mortgage in place of your ex, then that is the easy solution.
    I am a Mortgage Broker.

    You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Broker, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice
  • chelseablue
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    YHM wrote: »
    If you can add another party (friend, family member) to the mortgage in place of your ex, then that is the easy solution.

    Unfortunately no one I can add.

    We are tenants in common with unequal shares, me 70% and him 30%.

    I don't mind selling in a few years if I had too, I was just hoping to be able to save up the money instead to pay him what he's owed.
  • AnotherJoe
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    What about selling and buying a smaller place, one that costs 70% as much as this house ?
  • Comms69
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    Does that include buying him out?


    Basically he has money tied up in the property, so you need to factor that in too.


    Ultimately yes you can be forced to sell the property, but it is unlikely at this stage. More likely is that the property is sold when child reaches adulthood. But the partner would be potentially entitled to a percentage of the property even though you had paid it off. (ie he has lent you the balance)
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