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Buying Together - My 1st time - Her Not !

Hi,

I currently live with my partner in her house and we have now decided to buy a place together. I've never owned a property but she owns hers and should come out with equity of approx £80K.

She wants to put the £80k into the house, but also wants to protect it for the future which is fair enough and I'm sure a solicitor will advise on the best practice for this. Is this the best course of action ? Are their pitfallls to doing this ?

Could we get a joint first time-buyers mortgage as I've never had one ?

Also looking for general advice on how people decide on sharing expenses etc when they buy together.

Thanks

Comments

  • Your solicitor will advise you to buy as 'tenants in common' and your GF will own a bigger % than you.
    Could we get a joint first time-buyers mortgage as I've never had one ?

    No, I am afraid that is not possible.
    Also looking for general advice on how people decide on sharing expenses etc when they buy together.

    I would advise you to open an account together where you put money in each month to pay for utility bills, renovations etc.
  • PasturesNew
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    For sharing expenses, if you go down the route that she owns more than you, then one way might be:
    - split bills 50/50
    - split maintenance/house improvement in the same percentage as the ownership

    But then also, will she be paying a proportionate part of the buying (and selling) costs in the future?

    Or, you could simply split all the bills (buying, maintenance, utilities, selling) 50/50 and simply have her 'owning' more of the property, based on her £80k.

    Everybody is different. Depends on your relationship, incomes, what you feel is "right". Think through all the split up scenarios and home improvements/changes and who would pay for them.
  • The way my partner and I have done it is this:

    He sold his flat and put £57,000 into a house we bought together. A declaration of trust was drawn up to say that if we split up and sold that house, he would get back the first £57,000 out of the equity then the remainder split 50/50. We split all the buying costs 50/50 too.

    We have a joint bank account for bills and split them 50/50 each month.

    Hope that helps.....
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  • Thanks so far, some food for thought there. Liking the idea of the trust declaration where she would take the her £80K first and then we equally divide what's left. We will probably split everything 50/50 once we've bought.
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