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mylegalthrowaway
mylegalthrowaway Posts: 6 Forumite
edited 3 December 2017 at 5:02PM in Deaths, funerals & probate
Thanks for all your advice!
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  • How much money are here talking about? How is thevexecutor going to pay? It sounds quite ludicrous.
  • Margot123
    Margot123 Posts: 1,116 Forumite
    Are you estranged form the executor, are there any tensions, or do you simply just not know each other?
    If the answer to any of these questions is 'yes', then the executor is quite right to only issue the funds to you in person. This is in order to make sure they are only paying out to the correct beneficiaries.

    An alternative would be for them to verify your identity and address by you providing copies of photo ID and a utility bill by post (these can be certified by a solicitor at a cost to yourself). Perhaps you could suggest this? If acceptable, then it would be usual for the executor to issue you with a cheque.
  • mylegalthrowaway
    mylegalthrowaway Posts: 6 Forumite
    edited 3 December 2017 at 5:03PM
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  • Margot123
    Margot123 Posts: 1,116 Forumite
    Perhaps their thoroughness is being interpreted as stubbornness.
    The role of executor is not as easy as people think, every box has to be ticked or they can be held personally liable for anything that goes wrong.
  • It might cost a few pounds but ask them to pay your solicitor. It might even be cheaper than travelling. If not a letter before action sent to them might bring them to their senses.
  • mylegalthrowaway
    mylegalthrowaway Posts: 6 Forumite
    edited 3 December 2017 at 5:03PM
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    mylegalthrowaway Posts: 6 Forumite
    edited 3 December 2017 at 5:04PM
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  • jackyann
    jackyann Posts: 3,433 Forumite
    Yes, do ask a solicitor, especially if you have one you do business with - and try ringing around a bit.
    We had a similar situation - not a will - but money owed from an old transaction with complications - and the solicitor only charged us £5 (about 5 years ago). Other quoted a lot more (up to £250, which still might be cheaper than travelling) but this one quite rightly thought we might go back to them to do business - which we have.
  • unforeseen
    unforeseen Posts: 7,448 Forumite
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    It might be that as there is some sort of tension between you, the executor doesn't trust you to provide a signed receipt that he requires unless it is handed over in person.
  • mylegalthrowaway
    mylegalthrowaway Posts: 6 Forumite
    edited 3 December 2017 at 5:04PM
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