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Buying ex partner out of Joint Share Mortgage - Sanity Check Pls!
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getmore4less wrote: »that's not how proper equity shares work.getmore4less wrote: »how proper equity based shares work.The proper equity split is £172:£188 or 47.8%:52.2%
Another way to look at it is...getmore4less wrote: »on the simplified numbers for the ex wants and proper equity I got these 2 answers.getmore4less wrote: »That is not how proper equity split works.
If they are holding the property as anything other than tenants in common in equal shares beneficially 50:50 they will have agreed in what proportions the equity ownership is to be split and how it is intended to be funded, simple as that. That gives the 'proper' split and it is laughable that this wouldn't have been discussed on hundreds of thousands of pounds of house and debt commitments. It may just be that the OP can't remember what they put on the paperwork or that he wasn't bothered about it at the time, because he was just going to pay 'what he could when he could' each month like he previously did with the living expenses, and hope it all worked out in the end.
OP mentions in post #4 that "Re. the deposit, yeah that wasn’t 60/40 but she decided that the mortgage itself would be shared 60/40, even though I put less deposit in." So it sounds like what was agreed was 60:40 ongoing for mortgage servicing. Unless, as I mentioned in an earlier post, perhaps it's a misleading sentence and she didn't decide up front that the mortgage would be shared 60/40, she is just deciding now that the overall profits interest is 60/40 having done her own calculation of what she wants and reverse-engineering a percentage to fit the approximate amount of cash she wants.
The fact that OP has paid 50:50 of the mortgage over the few months it has been running to date didn't necessarily mean the whole £324k was going to be funded equally (particularly if "she decided that the mortgage itself would be shared 60/40, even though I put less deposit in."). The fact that the bank will see them as jointly and severally liable for the mortgage in terms of chasing down defaults and underpayments does not automatically mean they have each 'bought' £162k of equity using the mortgage; the bank will chase whomever it wants if it is not paid, and it is the deed of trust between the two of them which says who is the beneficial owner of how much equity.
It would certainly be in OP's interest to say he had funded £162k of equity by taking on half the £324k mortgage and to say therefore that the only difference is that the ex had 'bought' an extra 16/360ths of the property at the start by putting in an extra £16k over his £10k. Of course, she might see it as the OP tells us in post #4: 'the mortgage itself would be shared 60/40' and he was only paying 50:50 temporarily to equalise the fact that he could not afford 40% of the actual deposit at the time, with a view to ending up at 60:40 once the 'catch up' had been sorted.
OP should ask for a copy of all the purchase documentation from the ex and if it is not forthcoming ask for it from the solicitor who dealt with the purchase, as presumably they haven't gone out of business in the last 9 months.
For example it might be that they did indeed do a deed of trust and put in a clause to 'protect' her extra £16k deposit as a cash nominal amount in case of eventual negative equity, as an alternative to it buying her a greater equity share. Which would again be better for OP. Or perhaps the extra £16k at the start is effectively seen as a loan from one to the other to allow them to practically purchase the property and own it and maintain it and service the mortgage together without seeing that £16k as skewing ownership.
If OP is frustrated and half thinks it's better to just throw money at her to make the problem go away, he will not get to the bottom of what (if any) documentation there is showing that the property was to be held as anything other than tenants in common in equal shares. Putting a bit extra at deposit time, or making overpayments of the mortgage along the way, may not necessarily buy equity points pound for pound.0 -
Well plenty of maths in posts above, and suggestions on how the calculattions hould be made.
So I'm just going to make 2 comments for the future as you seem to be rushing into a similar commitment with someone else:
1) get a solicitor to draw up a Deed of Trust this time stating who owns what %, and, ideally, what formular will be used in even of a sale or buy-out. The fact it your brother this time, not a partner, makes no difference!
2) be more assertive. Several of your posts say things like :
"She is demanding a buyout sum based on"
"was her idea she has all the documents"
"This was my ex partner who suggested ..."
"it was her suggestion that..."
It's time for you to be making some definitive statements to her.0 -
it is proper in the sense that it is the only method that work for all combination of cash and debt servicing as if cash had been used.
People can agree what they like but all the others have flaws, the most common one get your deposits back favours one party when prices rise and the other when prices drop, it is effectively just an interest free loan of 1/2 the difference.
wonder if the OP has learnt their lesson and is drawing up an agreement with his brother that cover the finances and all the triggers for future sale, buyouts etc.
wonder if the brother already own property?0 -
Many have offered detailed formulae and calculations but, at the end of the day, it comes down to negotiation. Is it the case that she will accept (£390000-c£320000) x 60% plus whatever is owed to her in respect of the building work? This would be £42000 plus the outstanding amount - there does not seem to much variation.
If that is the case I would accept. You could be wrangling over very small amounts (with associated legal costs) when the most important thing is to be able to move on!0 -
getmore4less wrote: »
People can agree what they like but all the others have flaws,
If you do it based on mortgage 'taken on' rather than mortgage 'funded' you can end up with a situation where for example one person puts in 10% deposit and they both halve a 90% mortgage, so it is a 55/45 split in terms of committed equity, but actually (assuming you're in the first few years of a 25 year mortgage term) the second person has not put in anything like as much as 45% of overall capital to the project, being massively more 'geared' to house price rises than the other person. Again it 'favours one party' significantly in terms of profits and losses as one person can make 100x returns when the house doubles over a couple of years while the other can't, and if there is a loss it is more heavily felt by the person that did the parties a favour and fronted the deposit money.
So, rather than 'all the others have flaws', it's clear that from a commercial and personal economics perspective your 'proper' way of doing it can have some significant practical weaknesses as well as benefits, which is why of course, 'people can agree what they like'.the most common one get your deposits back favours one party when prices rise and the other when prices drop, it is effectively just an interest free loan of 1/2 the difference.wonder if the OP has learnt their lesson and is drawing up an agreement with his brother that cover the finances and all the triggers for future sale, buyouts etc.wonder if the brother already own property?
Maybe the brother is first time buyer and gets free government cash via his HTB ISA so using him gets you more money rather than less!0 -
bowlhead99 wrote: »If you do it based on mortgage 'taken on' rather than mortgage 'funded' you can end up with a situation where for example one person puts in 10% deposit and they both halve a 90% mortgage, so it is a 55/45 split in terms of committed equity, but actually (assuming you're in the first few years of a 25 year mortgage term) the second person has not put in anything like as much as 45% of overall capital to the project, being massively more 'geared' to house price rises than the other person. Again it 'favours one party' significantly in terms of profits and losses as one person can make 100x returns when the house doubles over a couple of years while the other can't, and if there is a loss it is more heavily felt by the person that did the parties a favour and fronted the deposit money.
Come with cash or cash you borrowed the ownership and outcome should be the same.
Servicing a debt is as good as paying with cash.
The person that owns the most should reap more of the reward and cover more of any losses.
that's what makes it fare it always stays in proportion to the ownership.
What you do with your bit of the debt is totally separate from the ownership of the property
In the 10% example there is a simple way to balance ownership back to 50:50 if that is what is desired you just split the debt 44.44%:55.56%0 -
Thanks for the responses all - I'll take the advice on and be sure to arrange an agreement with my brother!
I'll also start paying back the ex for the expenses.
One further question if I may: I wasn't aware of stamp duty being needed again for this transfer, but it sounds like it may? Having just spoken to someone at the bank, they said they didn't *think* it would need to be paid again but weren't sure, advising me to raise it with the mortgage adviser.
Can anyone give me a definitive answer? Stamp duty could be a deal breaker, tbh.
Thanks again0 -
If there is a consideration (ie money) being paid to your ex in order to buy her out then it will be liable for SDLT. Now it could be that the SDLT liability is £0 but it could be higher. It depends on how much the consideration is and whether your brother already owns any other residential properties.0
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Thanks - my brother does not own any other property.
Guess I'll only find out during the meeting at the bank.0 -
TheAbidingDude wrote: »Thanks - my brother does not own any other property.
Guess I'll only find out during the meeting at the bank.
Has he ever owned a property?0
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