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“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • Sending hugs Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
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    Sending you good vibes WF , hope you're feeling more yourself soon. Plus not sure if the moor fire is out yet , the one in your area but hope you aren't affected by it. The smoke from the other one was around for days. Could do with a downpour now.
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  • UncannyScot
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    What's "normal"? It means all things to all men. Be yourself. Don't aspire to be someone else or what you think people expect you to be. You are a wonderful mother, an absolute marvel at sorting out your finances and (I think) a thoroughly nice person. Give yourself some credit for all you've done. You are still very young and have lots of time to change your life and achieve your ambitions. Stick to your goal. One day you will look back and be very proud of what you have achieved.

    Absolutely ^^^^ :T:T:T
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  • Sun_Addict
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    Totally agree with Toni's Friend. You're young and there's plenty of time to change your life. When I feel like this I think about what's wrong then list the things I can do something about and the things I can't. I make a plan to change the things I can and live with those I can't. My life is far from "normal" but I try not to think about it too much and just plod on and make the best of it.

    Hope you feel more positive soon xx
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  • beanielou
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    Keep plodding :)
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
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  • I hope you feel more cheerful soon Wannabe. Keep plodding as Beanie says :).
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
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  • Cherryfudge
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    Big hugs from me too. All I can say is 'This too will pass'. Hang on in there and give your kids a cuddle. x
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  • beanielou
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    Hope that you are plodding :)
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Keep on keeping on, Wannabe. This too shall pass.
  • earthgirl
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    Hope all is ok x
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