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“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • WannabeFree
    WannabeFree Posts: 4,438 Forumite
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    Thank you.
    Morning, still struggling :o But got to carry on.

    Need to iron and do the meal plan next.

    Smalls happy enough with the plan of playing in the garden and having a picnic dinner out there. Makes it much easier when they are on side.

    Have a lovely Sunday all

    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Sun_Addict
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    Hope you've had a lovely day and the pain wasn't too bad xx
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • WannabeFree
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    Thank you SA x

    Morning :D

    Feeling brighter this morning although still only 2 hours sleep :cool: Why oh why! All 3 smalls are away to school and I'm bored now :rotfl: All the chores are done, even the ironing! Dinner for this evening lifted out.

    I have sort of meal planned and wrote a list but now the weather does look like it will be lovely and I might just wipe it all out and get salad and lighter things.

    Enjoyed the F1 yesterday :D:D

    x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • jwil
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    Glad you are feeling a bit better today. x
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • earthgirl
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    Mortgage-free Glee!
    How can you even contemplate a day with two hours sleep! I'd be napping all day. Hope you are feeling much better now.
    15/5/12 Paid off Mortgage 1 (£220k) Bought Dream House:www: Dec 13 - Mortage 2 -£116,508. 15/7/18 Mortgage Free Again :j

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  • Cherryfudge
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    All very quiet here... hope all is well? x
    I think a bit of sunshine is good for frugal living. (Cranky40)
    The sun's been out and I think I’m solar powered (Onebrokelady)

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  • WannabeFree
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    All very quiet here... hope all is well? x

    Thank you for popping in. I'm just really fed up and p!ssed off for no real reason I guess. Feel like running away from life. Then I get annoyed and wonder if these cycles will ever end. Will I ever be able to just be normal which no probably not but just any sort of level would be fine.

    Don't even know if that makes sense.

    I haven't been on because I don't know what to post. x
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • Toni'sfriend
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    What's "normal"? It means all things to all men. Be yourself. Don't aspire to be someone else or what you think people expect you to be. You are a wonderful mother, an absolute marvel at sorting out your finances and (I think) a thoroughly nice person. Give yourself some credit for all you've done. You are still very young and have lots of time to change your life and achieve your ambitions. Stick to your goal. One day you will look back and be very proud of what you have achieved.
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • earthgirl
    earthgirl Posts: 3,762 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    Yes I agree. Don't be so hard on yourself, you are totally amazing and if there are other demons you are battling that just makes you even more of a heroine!

    Also sevond the nice person bit, you are lovely take care x
    15/5/12 Paid off Mortgage 1 (£220k) Bought Dream House:www: Dec 13 - Mortage 2 -£116,508. 15/7/18 Mortgage Free Again :j

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  • Toni'sfriend
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    If there are other demons you are battling that just makes you even more of a heroine!
    Absolutley!
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
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