Finding right girl

GTR_King

Robin-o’-the-Hood

Thanks for the advice.. I don’t mind going clubbing every now & then... Now every week

GTR_King

Update I have started talking a girl (Match.com) (Think she is very good looking, someone I think is way too hot for me) since yerstday.

She is shy & always replies with good long messages, take ages to reply (will reply instantly/within 20 mins once she longs on, hardly logs online)

Was thinking (if still talking) give her my number tomz or Wed/Thurs. Then arrange to meet up next week... don’t like the idea of messaging for ages & it lead to nothing..

Am I being too quick? Don’t wanna rush things etc

goodwithsaving

GTR_King wrote: »

Update I have started talking a girl (Match.com) (Think she is very good looking, someone I think is way too hot for me) since yerstday.

She is shy & always replies with good long messages, take ages to reply (will reply instantly/within 20 mins once she longs on, hardly logs online)

Was thinking (if still talking) give her my number tomz or Wed/Thurs. Then arrange to meet up next week... don’t like the idea of messaging for ages & it lead to nothing..

Am I being too quick? Don’t wanna rush things etc

Oh come on. It has been since yesterday. Forgive me for being blunt, but she might not even be messaging you by tomorrow.

GTR_King

She message me earlier today, (was a long message) I don’t wanna act too keen that’s all.

Not end of the world if she stops talking gotta keep positive

IAmWales

She is a woman. There is a name for grown men that like girls.

And yes, slow down. You've already made several judgments about this woman and you've known her 24 hours.

Desperate is not attractive.

[Deleted User]

Don't let her hear you say 'wanna' all the time.

GTR_King

Ok thanks... I never send 2nd messages before they have replied, I am gonna play it cool & wait for her to reply, if she don’t I will move on.

Not gonna act to keen... will see what happens

[Deleted User]

Or 'gonna '.

GTR_King

I am not gonna take ages, so that she looses interest....

I will see what happens

WibblyGirly

My partner and I sent about 4 or 5 messages online and arranged a date. Both of us had filled out our profiles pretty well though so we could see the others interests etc. We did swap numbers and text for about a week before the date so there was time to cancel if we wanted.
I didn't want to spend ages messaging first as it can build up a false idea of a person before you meet them.