Teenagers first holiday without parents

meer53

dekaspace wrote: »

Im happy to end it, but they are the one stirring over silly things.


Though you should blame them more for stirring than me responding.

You don't have to reply.

annandale

Let's clear this up. Dekaspace is upset because I responded to him and not to everyone else on the thread. The last time I looked on a forum you could reply to anyone's posts you wanted..

In return I'm referred to as stupid, more than once. And I wasn't the only person who thought his intervention of how dare they get 15 quid a day when some people buy food with that was ridiculous.

It's a holiday. It's not a budgeting lesson.

dekaspace

annandale wrote: »

Let's clear this up. Dekaspace is upset because I responded to him and not to everyone else on the thread. The last time I looked on a forum you could reply to anyone's posts you wanted..

In return I'm referred to as stupid, more than once. And I wasn't the only person who thought his intervention of how dare they get 15 quid a day when some people buy food with that was ridiculous.

It's a holiday. It's not a budgeting lesson.

Lets be clear, you pick and choose things you want to be true then challenged me and when I repsond you were criticising my responses.



By the way I said not smart enough, well I guess you really can't be if you think thats the same thing as being stupid.


Just as you weren't smart enough to make up the idea that I thought "how dare they" when I was just giving a simple opinion.


YOU were the one that made something out of nothing


YOU were the one that had a problem with me having a opinion that it was a good idea to eat cheaper


YOU were the one who then made it about you and talked about not responding to me in the future.


I just responded to YOUR responses.


Notice with everyone else I gave calm clear answers.


Don't bait people then act like you are the one hard done by and twisting things.


I don't care that you didn't respond to others, I cared about you CHALLENGING things I said, no problem with difference of opinion but you were directly disregarding my opinions and acting as if I wasn't allowed them.


Now if you don't respond to me now, I wont respond again either, and crazily enough I hope we both can put this behind us.

annandale

I wasn't baiting you. I'll avoid your posts in future. Cheers.

dekaspace

annandale wrote: »

I wasn't baiting you. I'll avoid your posts in future. Cheers.

Well thats just childish as it places the blame on me, either way if thats the way you want to leave it.

meer53

dekaspace wrote: »

Well thats just childish as it places the blame on me, either way if thats the way you want to leave it.

I don't know how old you are but having to have the last word is quite childish.

cloudy-day

!!!!!! nice job on derailing the thread you pair!

OK, you're both right and the other one is a nasty meanie.

Moving on.....

eamon

Well I hope that both young lads have a smashing time. If they do illegal things then don't get caught or tell anybody about it!

dekaspace

meer53 wrote: »

I don't know how old you are but having to have the last word is quite childish.

Shame you didn't think for a moment its not about that


If it ended as THEM saying "ok, we agree to disagree" it would be fine.



Just as you have wrote a baiting response (which is also offensive) then turn it around on me


Ok heres one reason


I have autism (waits for people to tell me thats a excuse)


Nice to take a moral high ground eh.

IAmWales

dekaspace wrote: »

Shame you didn't think for a moment its not about that


If it ended as THEM saying "ok, we agree to disagree" it would be fine.



Just as you have wrote a baiting response (which is also offensive) then turn it around on me


Ok heres one reason


I have autism (waits for people to tell me thats a excuse)


Nice to take a moral high ground eh.

You're being told that you're coming across as very childish. Irrespective of your autism you can take that on board and either apologise for disrupting the thread, or simply step away from it. They are far more constructive (and dignified) actions than trying to pick arguments where there is no reason for one.

Take a break. Get some fresh air. You'll feel better for it.