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Is it rude to ask if item is from a smoking or non smoking house?

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Just wondering what everyones thoughts are on this? Is it rude to ask if item is from a smoking or non smoking house?
I recently asked if an item on gumtree was still available and got a near instant reply saying it was. Then asked the above and never heard anything.
So I assume the seller was either offended or was a smoker and thought I wouldn't buy it so never bothered replying.
From my point of view I don't want something that has a smell of smoke on it so would only be wasting my time and the sellers going to view it. It was a camera so wouldn't have been easy to clean and the rubber on it would be difficult to remove the smell.
I recently asked if an item on gumtree was still available and got a near instant reply saying it was. Then asked the above and never heard anything.
So I assume the seller was either offended or was a smoker and thought I wouldn't buy it so never bothered replying.
From my point of view I don't want something that has a smell of smoke on it so would only be wasting my time and the sellers going to view it. It was a camera so wouldn't have been easy to clean and the rubber on it would be difficult to remove the smell.
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Rude or not, ask if it is important to you. Last year I bought DAB radio and forgot to check if it was non-smoking household. A year on after a lot of airing and cleaning, I am still struggling with the smell so have stopped using it.
All my listings state that my items are from non smoking household. Now when I buy anything, I would check. If it offends the person and does not reply, I think I have saved!0 -
Wouldnt say its rude either. No harm in asking, same if its from a pet free home, any genuine seller would reply with a yes or a no.0
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You are the buyer...........
Ask anything you like.0 -
Of course it isn't rude - many sellers include that info as a matter of course, knowing that it will be important to a number of potential buyers.Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!0
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Anything I sell I always state that it is from a smoke and pet free home. Whether it helps or not I don't know.0
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The problem is that some sellers can't be bothered to reply. Others have a bizarre idea that you are obviously a scammer or a waste of time if you dare ask a question. Its not rude to ask and if they can't be bothered to answer then you are probably better off not buying from them anyway.0
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Thanks for the replies everyone, good to get your thoughts on it.0
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Ask anything you like, the seller either answers or ignores.Censorship Reigns Supreme in Troll City...0
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