Is it rude to ask if item is from a smoking or non smoking house?

Just wondering what everyones thoughts are on this? Is it rude to ask if item is from a smoking or non smoking house?

I recently asked if an item on gumtree was still available and got a near instant reply saying it was. Then asked the above and never heard anything.

So I assume the seller was either offended or was a smoker and thought I wouldn't buy it so never bothered replying.

From my point of view I don't want something that has a smell of smoke on it so would only be wasting my time and the sellers going to view it. It was a camera so wouldn't have been easy to clean and the rubber on it would be difficult to remove the smell.

Comments

  • kalsha
    kalsha Posts: 1,094 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Rude or not, ask if it is important to you. Last year I bought DAB radio and forgot to check if it was non-smoking household. A year on after a lot of airing and cleaning, I am still struggling with the smell so have stopped using it.
    All my listings state that my items are from non smoking household. Now when I buy anything, I would check. If it offends the person and does not reply, I think I have saved!
  • DCFC79
    DCFC79 Posts: 40,622 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Wouldnt say its rude either. No harm in asking, same if its from a pet free home, any genuine seller would reply with a yes or a no.
  • firefox1956
    firefox1956 Posts: 1,548 Forumite
    You are the buyer...........
    Ask anything you like.
  • Marcon
    Marcon Posts: 13,762 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Of course it isn't rude - many sellers include that info as a matter of course, knowing that it will be important to a number of potential buyers.
    Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!  
  • Anything I sell I always state that it is from a smoke and pet free home. Whether it helps or not I don't know.
  • mrcol1000
    mrcol1000 Posts: 4,795 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    The problem is that some sellers can't be bothered to reply. Others have a bizarre idea that you are obviously a scammer or a waste of time if you dare ask a question. Its not rude to ask and if they can't be bothered to answer then you are probably better off not buying from them anyway.
  • Thanks for the replies everyone, good to get your thoughts on it.
  • forgotmyname
    forgotmyname Posts: 32,853 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Ask anything you like, the seller either answers or ignores.
    Censorship Reigns Supreme in Troll City...

This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 349.8K Banking & Borrowing
  • 252.6K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453K Spending & Discounts
  • 242.8K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 619.6K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 176.4K Life & Family
  • 255.7K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 15.1K Coronavirus Support Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.