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cruyff73
cruyff73 Posts: 103 Forumite
edited 2 July 2017 at 2:48PM in Marriage, relationships & families
Apologies.
All opinions are my own and in no way contain official advice or guidelines.

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  • Money_maker
    Money_maker Posts: 5,471 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Depends how she feels about you. If she's as mad as hell then I doubt she would appreciate finding these stones, particularly in front of her mates.


    Romantic gestures work best when both individuals are in love.
    Please do not quote spam as this enables it to 'live on' once the spam post is removed. ;)

    If you quote me, don't forget the capital 'M'

    Declutterers of the world - unite! :rotfl::rotfl:
  • Ilona
    Ilona Posts: 2,449 Forumite
    You won't get there before her, it's a long way from Swansea. She will already be there. Daft idea, think of something else.

    Ilona
    I love skip diving.
    :D
  • pinkshoes
    pinkshoes Posts: 20,674 Forumite
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    Be there at the bottom when she gets down with refreshing drinks and cake for her and all her friends.
    Should've = Should HAVE (not 'of')
    Would've = Would HAVE (not 'of')

    No, I am not perfect, but yes I do judge people on their use of basic English language. If you didn't know the above, then learn it! (If English is your second language, then you are forgiven!)
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,574 Forumite
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    cruyff73 wrote: »
    Had a bust up with my girlfriend who I adore. She's mad as hell and says she doesn't know if we can continue.

    So she's going to be walking up Pen-y-Fan this afternoon (Welsh mountain) with a group of friends.

    She's chosen to go out with friends, not you - don't stalk her!

    Leave her to spend the day as she has chosen.
  • IAmWales
    IAmWales Posts: 2,024 Forumite
    pinkshoes wrote: »
    Be there at the bottom when she gets down with refreshing drinks and cake for her and all her friends.

    That would be stalker behaviour.

    If she's out with her friends then let her enjoy that time. A simple "I'm sorry. I love you." (if true) message would be far more appropriate.
  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 36,224 Forumite
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    Mojisola wrote: »
    She's chosen to go out with friends, not you - don't stalk her!

    Leave her to spend the day as she has chosen.

    I agree.
    Doing what you were considering (I guess it's too late now) is both stupid and creepy.
  • Geoff1963
    Geoff1963 Posts: 1,088 Forumite
    Depends on the reason for the bust up.
    If she says you never give her space, then don't go ; if she thinks you are unfit ( get fit if necessary ) then suggest doing the same just the two of you.

    "romantic or creepy/stupid" is in the mind of the beholder.
  • Rosieandjim
    Rosieandjim Posts: 254 Forumite
    If you love someone set them free, if they come back they are yours if not they are not yours to keep. Not exact quote but you should get the meaning.
  • Geoff1963
    Geoff1963 Posts: 1,088 Forumite
    The quote is :
    "If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were." Richard Bach
    Read more at: https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/r/richardbac136009.html

    I also think he was speaking of emotional freedom ; if you are denying them physical freedom, set them free and call a lawyer.
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