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The Nice People Thread, No.16: A Universe of Niceness.

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  • Jackmydad
    Jackmydad Posts: 9,186 Forumite
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    They have an advantage.... they have Yuman Ritez.

    We do not :)

    Exactly!
    As I am fond of saying.
    "Too many rights given without any responsibilities"
    Proper, decent, society needs both rights and responsibilities to work properly. Both properly enforced.
    Especially the responsibilities!
    That makes for "Nice people" ;)
  • PasturesNew
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    The trouble when it rains is ... you can't go out - and - if there's anything you NEED then you;'re going to get wet going out :)

    Bit nippier this morning...
  • LydiaJ
    LydiaJ Posts: 8,083 Forumite
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    edited 23 September 2018 at 10:25AM
    Parents often seem to want a quiet place for themselves.... and somewhere else to point their kids/footballs/bikes to go and play in to "give your dad and I a bit of peace and quiet".

    Loving the pronoun. Took me a few seconds to recognise that it was deliberate. "Hang on," I thought, "PN gets those right ... Ah! But she knows the kind of people she's describing usually don't!"
    :rotfl:
    chris_m wrote: »
    Which means that dishwasher still don't match the quantities - many nowadays being labelled as for 13 or even 15 place settings ;)

    Except that I don't want a dishwasher that will just wash all the plates etc from one meal. I want it to deal with the mugs from earlier in the day, the saucepans used in preparing the meal, and all that sort of thing too.
    silvercar wrote: »

    I remember that. It was an interesting watch.
    Do you know anyone who's bereaved? Point them to https://www.AtaLoss.org which does for bereavement support what MSE does for financial services, providing links to support organisations relevant to the circumstances of the loss & the local area. (Link permitted by forum team)
    Tyre performance in the wet deteriorates rapidly below about 3mm tread - change yours when they get dangerous, not just when they are nearly illegal (1.6mm).
    Oh, and wear your seatbelt. My kids are only alive because they were wearing theirs when somebody else was driving in wet weather with worn tyres.
    :)
  • PasturesNew
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    LydiaJ wrote: »
    Loving the pronoun. Took me a few seconds to recognise that it was deliberate. "Hang on," I thought, "PN gets those right ... Ah! But she knows the kind of people she's describing usually don't!"
    :rotfl:
    To be honest.... it'd take me a while to work out what you meant there - and where the pronoun is :) I'd have to Google to discover what a pronoun is as my starting point :)

    I "get it right", not through education with named thingies.... it's just "luck" :)
  • Doozergirl
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    I know you don't like the kids, PN, but I genuinely hope that nothing untoward happens to her.

    Friends of friends are currently distraught because there's a high likelihood that their son fell into the River Severn a few days ago :( All information is important.
    Everything that is supposed to be in heaven is already here on earth.
  • LydiaJ
    LydiaJ Posts: 8,083 Forumite
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    edited 23 September 2018 at 3:07PM
    To be honest.... it'd take me a while to work out what you meant there - and where the pronoun is :) I'd have to Google to discover what a pronoun is as my starting point :)

    I "get it right", not through education with named thingies.... it's just "luck" :)
    Parents often seem to want a quiet place for themselves.... and somewhere else to point their kids/footballs/bikes to go and play in to "give your dad and I a bit of peace and quiet".

    PN, you know that what the mother should tell the kids to do is "go and give your dad and *me* a bit of peace and quiet. I know you know how that bit of grammar works, because I remember you, some time ago, explaining the rule to somebody else on the NPT who asked for clarification. You told them (absolutely correctly) to think what they would say if there were no dad in the sentence ("give me..." rather than "give I...") and then add the dad in ("give your dad and me..." not "give your dad and I..."). So I thought you were getting it wrong on purpose, as a subtle dig about the parents in question. Sorry if I was overthinking things.

    Oh, and it's not luck that you understand those things. You speak grammatically correctly because that's the way you were spoken to when you were growing up. Those who didn't have that advantage in childhood mostly don't know such things. Interestingly, it's been discovered that it's during dream sleep that the human brain sorts that kind of thing out - pulls together lots of experiences and produces an unconscious awareness of things that we know without being quite sure how we know them, and even without being able to articulate what it is that we know (or know that "I" and "me" are called "pronouns"). This is why we mostly speak the grammar of our mother tongue effortlessly (or most of it anyway), and have endless trouble learning the grammar of a foreign language when our brains are past the age when they're at their best for acquiring language.
    Do you know anyone who's bereaved? Point them to https://www.AtaLoss.org which does for bereavement support what MSE does for financial services, providing links to support organisations relevant to the circumstances of the loss & the local area. (Link permitted by forum team)
    Tyre performance in the wet deteriorates rapidly below about 3mm tread - change yours when they get dangerous, not just when they are nearly illegal (1.6mm).
    Oh, and wear your seatbelt. My kids are only alive because they were wearing theirs when somebody else was driving in wet weather with worn tyres.
    :)
  • SingleSue
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    That's me home alone again.....Josh dropped off today, A14 was being an a@@@ so we had to go the long way round on the way home.

    Oh and it rained, a lot.
    We made it! All three boys have graduated, it's been hard work but it shows there is a possibility of a chance of normal (ish) life after a diagnosis (or two) of ASD. It's not been the easiest route but I am so glad I ignored everything and everyone and did my own therapies with them.
    Eldests' EDS diagnosis 4.5.10, mine 13.1.11 eekk - now having fun and games as a wheelchair user.
  • GDB2222
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    Ofo is a sort of plague of yellow bikes. We have two abandoned down the road. Not really obstructing anything, but not particularly attractive. And we are sufficiently far from their main area of operations that the bikes will hang around until Ofo drive a truck out here to pick them up. (Or somebody civic-minded cuts them up with an angle grinder and throws them in the bin.)
    No reliance should be placed on the above! Absolutely none, do you hear?
  • GDB2222
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    I've been looking on Dad Joke websites, because, after all, I am a dad and I like jokes. Anyway, I've filtered out the dross, and here are all the good ones:-
    No reliance should be placed on the above! Absolutely none, do you hear?
  • silvercar
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    GDB2222 wrote: »
    Ofo is a sort of plague of yellow bikes. We have two abandoned down the road. Not really obstructing anything, but not particularly attractive. And we are sufficiently far from their main area of operations that the bikes will hang around until Ofo drive a truck out here to pick them up. (Or somebody civic-minded cuts them up with an angle grinder and throws them in the bin.)

    I've never heard of them. Why are people choosing them over Boris bikes (or Sadiq's cycles or whatever they are now called)?
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