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Does his ex get half his house even she never lived there?

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  • 00ec25 wrote: »
    that's because the first post says his father went down as lender and so I'd assumed there was no mortgage lender as well. Just another instance of posts which miss out key details and then drip feed them in subsequent ones

    That's an unwarranted assumption on your part rather than a drip-feeding of information.
  • FBaby
    FBaby Posts: 18,374 Forumite
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    So he agreed to include her in the Declaration of Trust, to make her beneficiary of the amount she said she would pay at a later date.... well, I have to say, that is a seriously idiotic thing to do.

    And the idiocy didn't stop there, when he found out she cheated, he decided to challenge her, rather than going quiet and pleasantly over a nice candlelight meal, saying that he had got builders ready to start on the house and it would be nice if she transferred the money the following day before dumping her a few days later.

    Most likely she is not a nasty piece of work and won't use the opportunity of his lack of brains to get something she shouldn't be entitled to.
  • davemorton
    davemorton Posts: 29,084 Forumite
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    Almost certainly half the balance after the mortgage is paid off.
    (*Disclaimer* I know nothing about the legalitys, or the ability to do what I am about to say, just genuinely curious)
    So, if she gets half after the mortgage is paid, could he not just remortgage it to the hilt, then sell it?
    “Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?”
    Juvenal, The Sixteen Satires
  • Red-Squirrel_2
    Red-Squirrel_2 Posts: 4,341 Forumite
    FBaby wrote: »
    And the idiocy didn't stop there, when he found out she cheated, he decided to challenge her, rather than going quiet and pleasantly over a nice candlelight meal, saying that he had got builders ready to start on the house and it would be nice if she transferred the money the following day before dumping her a few days later.

    Wow! Obviously cheating is bad but that's seriously cold, remind me never to get on your bad side!
  • getmore4less
    getmore4less Posts: 46,882 Forumite
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    What does the trust document say, ALL of it?

    It would be negligent for the beneficial interest to kick in before any money was input.

    was it drawn up by a solicitor?

    If there is no way it can be nulled/frustrated as a contract there may have been a partial get out by increased borrowing
  • davemorton wrote: »
    (*Disclaimer* I know nothing about the legalitys, or the ability to do what I am about to say, just genuinely curious)
    So, if she gets half after the mortgage is paid, could he not just remortgage it to the hilt, then sell it?

    I'm pretty sure the original legal document would specify the mortgage that was in place at the time. Lawyers think of this sort of thing.
  • Hi I bought my house.... then my boyfriend moved in... he has lived with me for 7yrs..... we share the bills.... he pays the council tax and electric bill.... I pay all the rest, if we split up, is he entitled to half of the house...????
  • Mnd
    Mnd Posts: 1,699 Forumite
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    I suggest you start a new thread with your situation.
    This thread has gone cold and your query may get lost in it
    Sorry I can't help with your question
    M
    No.79 save £12k in 2020. Total end May £11610
    Annual target £24000
  • LadyDee
    LadyDee Posts: 4,293 Forumite
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    I wonder what happened eventually. I'd like to think the ex did the decent thing.
  • harz99
    harz99 Posts: 3,819 Forumite
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    LadyDee wrote: »
    I wonder what happened eventually. I'd like to think the ex did the decent thing.


    I guess we'll never know. I never understand why people don't come back and finish what they started, or update if still ongoing.


    She has no other posts on MSE either.
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