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When things hit rock bottom the only answer is to fight the way back up...

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  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Thank you so much will fill that in this evening for him and submit it ;)
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    edited 11 July 2017 at 7:40PM
    Well bedtime and another school day done. Cannot wait for the summer holidays, have lots of free things planned to do with the smalls, just some bus fares in there.

    Didn't buy my book, I've been cleaning and baking, then watching the tennis. Maybe tomorrow ;)

    I'm actually cooking myself some dinner :rotfl::rotfl: must be the first time in near on a week :rotfl: Kids have been fed, bathed and in bed. Uniforms washed and ironed ready for tomorrow and youngests things ready for her nursery visit!

    Think I'll go to my sisters tomorrow after school so can have a natter and moan :rotfl:

    Oh and another NSD :p at this rate will be able to pay the rent and some of the council tax this week despite OH wage being just one days pay :cool: so I won't see anything from that.
  • 24ta
    24ta Posts: 267 Forumite
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    Hi,
    Have been following your posts. Great news about the job you should be very proud of yourself.
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Wednesday it is :D

    Nursery visit went well. A lot better than I expected and I feel much happier about her starting in September.

    I had an awful nights sleep with my anxiety playing up because I'd worked myself up for this morning, so I'm going to try and get a nap in today with lil one.

    Not a NSD, took her to get a sweetie after being so good and making me so proud ;) It's a huge deal for her and she did amazing.

    50p spent well worth breaking a NSD for though.

    Nothing much else to report, all is quiet and ticking along.
  • EssexHebridean
    EssexHebridean Posts: 24,441 Forumite
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    Oh well - if you've not seen OH you can't tell him stuff can you now - so that sorts out that one!

    Fingers crossed for the tax rebate on the uniform laundering thing - that would be a nice little bonus wouldn't it!
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  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Exactly he clearly doesn't care that much if he can't be bothered to discuss it. He did come home last night but I was already in bed and he'd gone to work before I got up this morning.

    The form for the uniform has been sent (I did tell/ask him first :o)
  • EssexHebridean
    EssexHebridean Posts: 24,441 Forumite
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    Oh we cross posted earlier and I didn;t spot it - SO pleased the nursery visit went well - it's a big thing for any child isn't it but more so for one with health issues I bet!

    Do me a favour - when that tax rebate turns up, DON'T let him get his mitts on it! :D
    🎉 MORTGAGE FREE (First time!) 30/09/2016 🎉 And now we go again…New mortgage taken 01/09/23 🏡
    Balance as at 01/09/23 = £115,000.00 Balance as at 31/12/23 = £112,000.00
    Balance as at 31/08/24 = £105,400.00 Balance as at 31/12/24 = £102,500.00
    £100k barrier broken 1/4/25
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  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    Oh we cross posted earlier and I didn;t spot it - SO pleased the nursery visit went well - it's a big thing for any child isn't it but more so for one with health issues I bet!

    Do me a favour - when that tax rebate turns up, DON'T let him get his mitts on it! :D

    I second this!!!x
    Debt (1/9/14) £6,702.11 Debt free (30/11/2016) mortgage port- £70,077.82 and mortgage £126,517.39 o/s currently
    Debt - £17,190.83 (29/7/22) now (19/8/22) £16,688.80
  • Toni'sfriend
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    I'm so pleased the nursery visit went well and that you've decided to take the job. It's not just the money. You will be interacting with other people and it will do your self esteem no end of good. Sorry I just have to ask - if OH left before you got up did he actually make his own breakfast?
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • EssexHebridean
    EssexHebridean Posts: 24,441 Forumite
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    I'm so pleased the nursery visit went well and that you've decided to take the job. It's not just the money. You will be interacting with other people and it will do your self esteem no end of good. Sorry I just have to ask - if OH left before you got up did he actually make his own breakfast?

    I'm betting he went without and bought something on the way to work! :rotfl:
    🎉 MORTGAGE FREE (First time!) 30/09/2016 🎉 And now we go again…New mortgage taken 01/09/23 🏡
    Balance as at 01/09/23 = £115,000.00 Balance as at 31/12/23 = £112,000.00
    Balance as at 31/08/24 = £105,400.00 Balance as at 31/12/24 = £102,500.00
    £100k barrier broken 1/4/25
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