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Money Moral Dilemma: Should I make mortgage overpayments ahead of my partner?

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  • tgroom57
    tgroom57 Posts: 1,432 Forumite
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    MSE_Nick wrote: »
    I have recently taken on a mortgage with my partner, and since he earns less than I do we apportion the payments according to our income. I have the capacity to make overpayments while he doesn't (though his income is likely to overtake mine in the next few years) - should I do this to save us both money in the long-term, even though I'd still only own the same proportion of the house?

    No, to answer your question. I 'd keep my money separate.
    You are making 2 key assumptions here- firstly that his income will overtake yours, and secondly what he will do with the extra money when it does. You need to consider what if his income doesn't improve .

    In the event of a break-up, there is still a minimum solicitor's fee to pay even if you only get back what was yours- 25 years ago this minimum fee was £2,500 and I've no idea what it is now.
  • Pun
    Pun Posts: 740 Forumite
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    Why not discuss with the only party who really matters: your 'partner'.
  • Fireflyaway
    Fireflyaway Posts: 2,766 Forumite
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    Financially it makes sense. I guess you are worried about what would happen if you split because otherwise its a no brainer. My husband earns a lot more than me but has never questioned the fact he contributes financially a lot more. We share the success. I do all the house work and cooking etc instead. It works for us.
    Evaluate your relationship then decide.
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