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KatTee1
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Hello, I am new here so bear with me please!
I am in the process of divorcing my husband. We are going through mediation and one option for me to stay in the family home has been proposed by my husband. It would see me having to try to afford to take on the mortgage in my name and at present I don't earn enough to do so.
I am starting to have a look at guarantor mortgages. My parents have offered to support in whatever way they can help. Has anyone got experience of this type of mortgage? If so, the fact that my parents are both retired, how does that affect things? They are fortunate to be in a good financial situation with decent savings, very good pension income and no mortgage on their house, worth circa £1.5m. The property I own with my husband is worth around £550-£600k with a mortgage of £210k.
Many thanks in advance.
I am in the process of divorcing my husband. We are going through mediation and one option for me to stay in the family home has been proposed by my husband. It would see me having to try to afford to take on the mortgage in my name and at present I don't earn enough to do so.
I am starting to have a look at guarantor mortgages. My parents have offered to support in whatever way they can help. Has anyone got experience of this type of mortgage? If so, the fact that my parents are both retired, how does that affect things? They are fortunate to be in a good financial situation with decent savings, very good pension income and no mortgage on their house, worth circa £1.5m. The property I own with my husband is worth around £550-£600k with a mortgage of £210k.
Many thanks in advance.
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Do you have kids ?
£210,000 is a big mortgage and that is before you try and sort out the equity your Ex husband might want.0 -
Yes, two, both primary school age. The equity that my husband has proposed he receives I have as a lump sum that could be paid directly to him without the sale of the house. It is what he has asked for, in order for him to be able to afford to buy the home he wants. I am seeing my solicitor in a fortnight to discuss, I am just finding out what I can about my options prior to this.
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You really need to see a solicitor and find out how much your pension and your husband's pension is worth.
Did you keep separate bank accounts ? Could he have other money shares etc
The idea you split everything 50/50 goes out the window when you have children that are also primary school age.
He will have to pay you maintenance until they are 19 either via court order or the CSA/CMS0 -
Thanks yes, we are well into sorting out all the rest of the finances. We've exchanged financial details during mediation. Slowly but surely...0
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I cant advise legally but if this were me, I'd be tempted to sell the house and you both use whatever equity is left ( in the proportions awarded) to use as deposits to buy your own places. From what you say there is potentially as much as £400,000 equity? That should go someway to putting down a fair deposit ? Get a cheaper house with a smaller mortgage? New start for everyone. I'd try not to involve parents just in case it goes wrong and they are approached to pick up the bill. They might not mind but I know I'd feel uncomfortable.0
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I agree with Fireflyaway's logic on downsizing, especially if your current income is limited, but can also understand the desire to stay in the family home given the disruption to the rest of your life.
Have you got in touch with a decent mortgage broker to see what other options might be available, e.g. for your parents to buy out the remaining equity from savings and/or pension income? That would seem like quite a clean way to do it, and you could come to an arrangement with them to take on the mortgage in some form in the future. Generally i'm against 'guarantor' loans as they can go horribly wrong and destroy relationships if the recipient then can't (or won't) pay and the guarantor picks up the bill - sadly I've had this happen close to me. It sounds like you have a strong relationship with your parents so this probably isn't an issue, but worrying about guarantee triggers is something you could do without as your finances settle down after the divorce.0 -
Hello, I am new here so bear with me please!
I am in the process of divorcing my husband. We are going through mediation and one option for me to stay in the family home has been proposed by my husband. It would see me having to try to afford to take on the mortgage in my name and at present I don't earn enough to do so.
I am starting to have a look at guarantor mortgages. My parents have offered to support in whatever way they can help. Has anyone got experience of this type of mortgage? If so, the fact that my parents are both retired, how does that affect things? They are fortunate to be in a good financial situation with decent savings, very good pension income and no mortgage on their house, worth circa £1.5m. The property I own with my husband is worth around £550-£600k with a mortgage of £210k.
Many thanks in advance.0
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