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  • Hello Suffolk Lass

    I am back on the boards now after an absence. I used to read and post on your diary and its lovely to catch up. 

    It's funny how things change in a short space of time. When I first followed, I think I skipped through some of the pension stuff, I probably didn't understand it and retirement felt a long way off. Now I lap this stuff up, and its only 4 years on.

    Re gynaecological issue and not realising how consuming it is, I can vouch for that. I ended up having a TAH in June and its only now I realise how bad things had got. In that sense, I feel liberated. I wish that for you too.

    Paws
    Debt Jan 2017 = £42k
    May 2022 = £15k
  • Cheery_Daff
    Cheery_Daff Posts: 17,957 Forumite
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    Glad your health issues are sorted, that can take up all kinds of energy x
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    That sounds absolutely lovely, the village lunch.  You're very accomplished :) 
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Watty1
    Watty1 Posts: 7,639 Forumite
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    The village lunch sounds awesome!  How does one get invited?
    Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became

    In the event the proverbial hits the fan then co-habitees are better stashing their cash than being mortgage free !!
  • rtandon27
    rtandon27 Posts: 6,264 Forumite
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    3.50? Wow - I thought a 3.99 meal deal from b00ts was a good deal!

    Your village is very lucky to have you organising such a lovely lunch!
    4 YEARS 10 MONTHS DEBT FREE!!! (24 OCT 2016)
    (With heartfelt thanks to those who have gone before us & their indubitable generosity.)
    ...and now I have a mortgage! (23 AUG 2021)
    Original Date - Sept 2041 New projection - Dec 2039 (reduced by 21 months)
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