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Dealing with a vendor through facebook

Has anyone ever tried to do this to try and cut the BS and get a deal done rather than playing games with the estate agent? Good or bad idea? Obviously the sale would still be done so the EA gets their cut (if the vendor wants to).
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  • anselld
    anselld Posts: 8,738 Forumite
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    Seriously?

    ( That will probably be the vendor's response also.)
  • davidmcn
    davidmcn Posts: 23,596 Forumite
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    Weird stalker buyer will be told to speak to my agent.
  • AnotherJoe
    AnotherJoe Posts: 19,622 Forumite
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    kilby_007 wrote: »
    Has anyone ever tried to do this to try and cut the BS and get a deal done rather than playing games with the estate agent? Good or bad idea? Obviously the sale would still be done so the EA gets their cut (if the vendor wants to).

    Have you heard the phrase "you dont get a dog and bark yourself" ?

    Why do you think they've paid for an EA?
    Clue; its not so they can swap messages on FB with prospects and do the agents job for them!
  • Riggyman
    Riggyman Posts: 185 Forumite
    Agree a price with them through their EA and then deal with them through your solicitor, like normal people.
  • G_M
    G_M Posts: 51,977 Forumite
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    why use facebook?

    What's wrong with morse code?
  • eddddy
    eddddy Posts: 18,552 Forumite
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    kilby_007 wrote: »
    Has anyone ever tried to do this to try and cut the BS and get a deal done rather than playing games with the estate agent? Good or bad idea? Obviously the sale would still be done so the EA gets their cut (if the vendor wants to).

    Didn't work out very well for me. I needed 1000 'likes' before I could exchange contracts, but I only got 12.

    And using Snapchat with the solicitor was a disaster as well. She took out an injunction.
  • Marvel1
    Marvel1 Posts: 7,512 Forumite
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    As The EA still get their cut, I would want everything done by them.
  • :rotfl:I bet my vendor would have been charmed to little pieces at me having the chance to put out the facts so publicly about the way they were:rotfl:

    Can't see any vendor (or buyer come to think of it) wanting an "open" transaction if they have any hopes/plans at all on "doing the dirty" on the other party if they get the chance:rotfl:. If only.....:cool:.

    Altogether a highly unlikely prospect - unless both parties know they fully intend to do things "honourably".

    I could see my vendors Facebook page now, reading:
    - unwarranted delays in selling (probably not their solicitors fault?)
    - tried to keep the house on the market after accepting my offer
    - were "economical with the truth" about the house
    - came back for a bit more after agreeing the price
    - knew just what the neighbours are capable of - and didn't mention it
    etc etc etc

    Do you really think a vendor will risk getting all that sort of information up there in writing in public about them?

    Mind you - it would be a good incentive to "behave" if we all did do our housebuying/selling like that...:cool:. Oh well...in our dreams I guess...
  • csgohan4
    csgohan4 Posts: 10,607 Forumite
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    phone might be better perhaps
    "It is prudent when shopping for something important, not to limit yourself to Pound land/Estate Agents"

    G_M/ Bowlhead99 RIP
  • Dan-Dan
    Dan-Dan Posts: 5,279 Forumite
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    :rotfl:I bet my vendor would have been charmed to little pieces at me having the chance to put out the facts so publicly about the way they were:rotfl:

    Can't see any vendor (or buyer come to think of it) wanting an "open" transaction if they have any hopes/plans at all on "doing the dirty" on the other party if they get the chance:rotfl:. If only.....:cool:.

    Altogether a highly unlikely prospect - unless both parties know they fully intend to do things "honourably".

    I could see my vendors Facebook page now, reading:
    - unwarranted delays in selling (probably not their solicitors fault?)
    - tried to keep the house on the market after accepting my offer
    - were "economical with the truth" about the house
    - came back for a bit more after agreeing the price
    - knew just what the neighbours are capable of - and didn't mention it
    etc etc etc

    Do you really think a vendor will risk getting all that sort of information up there in writing in public about them?

    Mind you - it would be a good incentive to "behave" if we all did do our housebuying/selling like that...:cool:. Oh well...in our dreams I guess...



    Oh Money.......we can assume the OP meant via Facebook messenger rather then on their facebook `wall` (not that it`s a great idea anyway)
    Never, under any circumstances, take a sleeping pill and a laxative on the same night.
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